Beflhwh nana, Boraxwh hana

BeflHWH nana, BoraxwH Hana

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^OHHOO nonHManno nyTon, nocpo^CTDOM KOTopmx nacToa^no nnDOCTO pw aHa^H3HpyroT cdoh hhdocthphohhho peraoHHH. Kor,^a mh, KaK po,^H- TOHH, coDeTyeM HaraHM ^eTSM “h^th d raKony, ynHTbca h3o Dcex chh h nonyHHTb xoporayra pa5ory”, - mh nacTo flenaeM oto no cno^HDraeHca npHDHHKe. TaK De^b Dcer,^a na^o 5hho nocTynaTb. Kor,aa a DcTpeTHna Po5epTa, ero H^eH c caMoro naHana H3yMHHH Mena. BocnHTaHHHH ^DyMa oTpaMH, oH oT HHX HMeH ^De pa3HHX peHH! o,aHH oTep yHHH ero o^HoMy, ^pyroH - ^pyroMy, Ka^^HH h3 otpod xoTen, hto5h Po5epT cTpeMHnca HMeHHo K ero penH. Ero o5pa3oDaHHHH oTep coDeToDan eMy pa5oTaTb na KopnopapHra. Ero 5oraTHH oTep coDeToDan eMy Dna^eTb KopnopapHeH. 05e ^H3HeHHHe TponH Tpe5oDanH o5pa3oDaHHa, ho npe^MeTH H3yHeHH3 5hhh coDepraeHHo pa3HHHHHe. Ero coo5pa3HTenbHHH oTep D,aoxHoDHan Po5epTa 5HTb coo5pa3HTenbHHM HenoDeKoM. Ero 5oraTHH oTep D^oxHoDHan Po5epTa 3HaTb, KaK HaHHMaTb coo5pa3HTenbHHx nra,aeH.

HanHHHe ^Dyx otpod DH3HDano Maccy npo5neM. HacToa^HH oTep Po5epra 5hh 3aDe^yro^HM o5pa3oDaHHeM na EaDaHax. Ko DpeMeHH, Kor,aa Po5epTy cTyKHyno 16, yrpo3a “ecnH th He nonyHHrab xoporaee o5pa3oDaHHe, to ne nonyHHrab h xoporaeH pa5oTH” HMena cna5HH o^- ^eKT. 0h y^e 3Han, hto ^oporoH ero KapbepH 5hho Dna^eTb Kopnopa- PH3MH, a He pa5oTaTb na hhx. Po5epT npH3HaeT, hto o5pa3oDaHHe cpe^- HeH raKoHH noMorao eMy nonacTb d KoHHe^^. 0h pDanca HaHaTb cTpoHTb cdoH aKTHD, ho, d Konpe kohpod, coraacHnca, hto o5paaoDaHHe d KoHHe^^e npHHeceT eMy onpe^eHeHHyra DHro^y.

HecTHo roDopa, H^eH d otoH KHHre, DepoaTHo, cnHraKoM pa^HKanbHH cero^Ha 5onbraHHcTDa po^HTeHeH. KoMy-To h3 po^HTeHeH Tpy,ano h

npocTo co^ep^aTb cdohx ^eTeH d raKone. Ho d cDeTe naraHx Menara^Hxca DpeMeH MH, KaK po,aHTeHH, ^oH^HH 5HTb oTKpHTH HoDHM H cMeHHM H^eaM. B^oxHoDHSTb ^eTeH 5HTb pa5oTHHKaMH o^naHaeT: coDeToDaTb hm nnaTHTb 5onbrae nanoroD d ^h3hh h ocTaTbca c ManeHbKoH nencHeH. H 3to npaD^a, hto nanorH aDnaraTca DenHHaHraeH cTaTbeH pacxo^oD HenoDeKa. B c^mom flene, 5onbraHHcTDo ceMeH pa5oTaeT c aHDapa no cepe^HHy Maa Ha npaDHTenbcTDo TonbKo flna Toro, hto5h noKpHDaTb cdoh HanorH. Hy^HH hodh^ H^eH, h OTa KHHra HeceT hx.

Po5epT roDopHT, hto 5oraTHe yHaT cdohx ^eTeH HHaHe. 0hh yHaT cdohx ^eTeH ^oMa, 3a o5e^eHHHM ctohom. Mo^eT 5HTb, oth hx H^eH ne H3 Tex, kotophmh 5h dh no^eHHHHcb co cdohmh ^eTbMH, ho cnacH5o h 3a to, hto D3raaneTe Ha hhx. ^ coDeTyra DaM npo^oH^aTb hohck, KaK MaMa H HenoDeK, Hba Hpo^eccHa HonyHeHHa xoporaHx 3HaHHH h naxo^- ^eHHa xoporaeH pa5oTH + ycTapena. HpHrano DpeMa ^aDaTb cod^th HaraHM ^eTSM 5onbraeH cTeHeHH cho^hocth. HaM ny^HH hodh^ H^eH h HHoe o5pa3oDaHHe. Ho-MoeMy, ne TaKaa y^e h Hnoxaa H^ea roDopHTb HaraHM ^eTSM, hto5h He TonbKo cTpeMHTbca cTaTb xoporaHMH pa5oT- HHKaMH, ho h d to ^e DpeMa cTpeMHTbca Dna^eTb co^ctd^hhhm hh- DecTHpHoHHHM HpeflHpHSTHeM. ^ Ha^eracb, KaK MaTb, HTo 3Ta KHHra

homo^^t ^pyrHM po,aHTenaM. Ha^e^^a Po5epTa - HpoHH^opMHpoDaTb



12 Po5epx T. KHOcaKH, 0apoH

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aro,aeH, hto aro5OH MO^ex ^octhhb npopBexaHHH, ecan oxo hx BH5op. EcHH cero^Ha bh ca^oBHHK hhh y5op^HK, hhh ^a^e 5eapa5oTHHH, y Bac ecTb bosmo^hoctb nayHHTbca caMoMy h yHHTb Tex, koto bh aro^HTe, no3a5oTHTbca o cBoeM ^HHancoBoM noao^eHHH.

noMHHTe, hto ^HHancoBaa cMeKaaKa - MeHTaabHHH npopecc, He- pe3 kotophH mh peraaeM cboh ^HHancoBHe npo5aeMH. Cero^Ha mh Ha5ara,aaeM rao5aabHHe TexHoaorHHecKHe nepeMeHH, kotophx npe^^e He 5hho. Hh y koto h^t xpycTaabHoro raapa, ho o^ho nonaTHo BceM - nepeMeHH, hto npoH3oH^yT, 5y,ayT e^e ^aHTacTHHHee. Kto 3HaeT, hto npHHeceT 5y,ay^ee? Ho hto5h TaM hh 5hho, y Hac ecTb ^Ba ^yn^a- MeHTaabHHx BH5opa: HrpaTb b 5e3onacnocTb hhh HrpaTb b coo5pa- 3HTeabHocTb* totobk, o5pa3oBHBaa, 5y,aa cboH co^ctb^hhhH ^HHanco- bhH reHHH h ^HHancoBHH reHHH cbohx ^e^eH.

0apoH ^enmep



BeflHWH nana, BoraxwH Hana


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rjIABA 1


BOrATMH nAHA, BE^HMH HAHA


PaccKa3weaeT PoSepx KnocaKH

y MCHa Gwno 2 ox^a: 5oraxHH h 5e^HHH. O^hh, BHCOKOo5pa- 30BaHHHH H HHTeaHHreHTHHH, 5hH ^OKTOpOM ^HHOCO^HH.

3a 2 rO^a npOraea 4-x aeTHHH Kypc O5yneHHa b KOaae^^e. 3aTeM OTnpaBHHca b yHHBepcHTeT CTOH^Op^a, yHHBepcHTeT HHKarO h CeBepO- 3ana^HHH yHHBepcHTeT COBepraencTBOBaTb 3HaHHa, Bcer,aa HOayHaa CTHneH^Hra. fl,pyrOH OTep HMea Ky,aa MeHbraHH ypOBenb O5pa3OBaHHa.

05a OTpa HpeycHeBaaH b cbohx Kapbepax, mhoto pa^OTaaH bcm cbom ^H3Hb. 05a HMeaH cy^ecTBeHHHe 3apa5oTKH. O^HaKo o^hh bcm ^H3Hb Bea ^HHancoBHe 5aTaaHH. fl,pyroH cTaa o^hhm h3 5oraTeHraHx ara,aeH na PaBaHax. O^hh yMep, oct^bhb cBoeH ceMbe ^ecsTKH MHaaH- OHOB ^oaaapoB, 5aaroTBopHTeabHHe ynpe^fleHHa h cbom pepKOBb. fl,py- roH ocTaBHH cneTa OHaaTH.

05a OTpa 5hhh cHabHHe, co3H^aTeabHHe h BHHaTeabHHe. 05a ^aBaaH MHe coBeTH, ho pa3HHe. 05a cHabHo BepHHH b o5pa3OBaHHe, ho peKOMeH^OBaaH pa3HHH Kypc o5yneHHa. Echh 5h y Mena 5hh ToabKO o,aHH OTep, MHe 5h Hy^HO 5hho 5h HpHHSTb hhh OTBeprHyTb ero coBeT. HMea 2-x OTpoB, coBeTOBaBraHx MHe, a cToaa Hepe^ BH5opoM KOHTpac- THpyra^Hx ToneK 3peHHa: o^hoH tohkh 3peHHa 5oraToro neaoBeKa h ^pyroH - 5e^Horo. BMecTO Toro, hto5h HpocTO HpHHSTb hhh OTBeprnyTb o^Hy hhh ^pyryra TOHKy 3peHHa, a o^napy^Ha, hto 5oabrae ^yMara, cpaBHHBara oth tohkh 3peHHa h HHrab 3aTeM ^eaara BH5op.

npo5aeMa 5Haa b tom, hto 5oraTHH HeaoBeK e^e ne 5hh 5oraTHM, a 5eAHHH - 5e^HHM. 05a ToabKo HaHHHaaH cboh KapbepH, peraaaH Hpo5aeMH ^ener h ceMeH. Ho Ha Hpe^MeT ^ener hx tohkh 3peHHa 5hhh ^HaMeTpaabHo hpothbohoho^hh. TaK, o^hh oTep Mor cKa3aTb: “Hra5oBb K ^eHbraM - KopeHb Bcex 3oa”. A ^pyroH: “He^ocTaTOK ^ener - KopeHb Bcex 3oa”. KaK Moao^OMy Hapnra, HMeBraeMy 2-x cHabHHx OTpoB, OKa3HBara^Hx na Mena BHHaHHe, MHe HpHxo^Haocb Tpy,ano. ^ xoTea 5HTb xoporaHM, HocayraHHM chhom, ho otph tobophhh MHe pa3HHe Be^H. HpeHMy^ecTBeHHO pa^aHHHe hx TOHeK 3peHHa Kacaaocb ^ener, h oho 5hHO cTOHb pa3HTeabHHM, HTO 3 HOcTOSHHO 5hH 3aHHTpHTOBaHHHM, HpoaBaaa 5oabraoe hm^ohhtctbo k TOMy, hto caHraaa. ^ cTaa Ha^oaro 3a^yMHBaTbca Ha^ TeM, o HeM roBopHa MHe Ka^^HH. Mhoto cBoero cBo5o,aHoro BpeMeHH a HpoBO^Ha, cHparaHBaa ce5a: “HoHeMy oh oto roBopHT?” hhh “A HOHeMy ^pyroH bot TaK roBopHT?”. Ehho 5h Ky,aa Hpo^e cKa3aTb HpocTo: “fla, oh HpaB. ^ coraaceH c othm” hhh HpocTo



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negxep


Po5epx T. KHOcaKH, 0apoH


OTBeprHyxb KaKyro-xo xoHKy apeHHH, roBopa: "UrapHK He 3Haex, o neM
roBopHx”. BMecTo ototo naaHHHe 2-x otpob, kotophx a aro^Ha,
3acTaBaaao Mena ^yMaTb h KoHKpeTHo BH^HpaTb cnoco5 MHraaeHHH
ce5a. Hpopecc nocToaHHoro BH5opa, b Konpe kohpob, ^aa MHe 5oabrae
noae3Horo, ne^eaH 3aypa^Hoe npHHKTHe hhh oTpHpaHHe KaKon-To o^hoh
tohkh 3peHHH.

O^Ha H3 npHHHH, HoneMy 5oraTHe 5oraTeraT, 5e^HHe 5e^HeraT, a cpe^HHH Kaacc b ^oarax KaK b raeaKax h to, hto Hpe^MeTy flener yHaT ^oMa, a He b raKoae. EoabraHHcTBo ara^aeH y^naraT o flenbrax ot cbohx po,aHTeaeH. A hto mo^^t 5e^HHH po,aHTeab HoBe^aTb cBoeMy pe5eHKy o ^eHbrax. Oh HpocTo tobopht: “OcTaBaHca b raKoae h yHHcb H3o Bcex chh”. Pe5enoK Mo^eT HpeKpacno okohhht^ raKoay, ho b Haane ^HHancoB ero yMCTBeHHWH 6ara* 6y,aeT 6eflHWM, a BpeMH ne HaBepcTaTb.

TeMa ^eHer ne Ho,aHHMaeTca b raKoae. 0kohh ^oKycHpyraTca Ha raKoabHHx H Hpo^eccHonaabHHx 3HaHHax-. 3to o^bacnaeT, KaK yMHHe 5aHKHpH, BpaHH H 5yxraaTepa c hx bhcokhmh raKoabHHMH Ho3HaHHHMH cpa^ararca Ha ^HHancoBoM ^poHTe bcm cbom ^H3Hb. Hara oraeaoMaa- ra^HH rocy,aapcTBeHHHH ^oar - b 3HaHHTeabHoH cTeHeHH “^acayra” BHcoKoo5pa3oBaHHHx hohhthkob h HpaBHTeabcTBeHHHx hhhobhhkob, HpHHHMara^Hx ^HHancoBHe peraeHHa c MaaHM hhh oTcyTcTByra^HM Hpe^cTaBaeHHeM na Hpe^MeT ^ener.

^ HacTo pa3MHraaara o hobom THcaHeaeTHH, h MHe ara5oHHTHo, hto cayHHTca, Kor,aa y Hac 5y,ayT MHaaHoHH ara,aeH, KoTopHe 5y,ayT ny^- ^aTbca B MaTepHaabHoH h Me^HpHHcKoH homo^h. Ohh 5y,ayT 3aBHceTb ot cbohx ceMeH hhh HpaBHTeabcTBa, ny^^aacb b ^HHancoBoH Ho,a^ep- ^Ke. Hto HpoH3oH^eT, Kor,aa Me^o5cay^HBaHHe h copHaabnoe o5ecHe- HeHHe HcTo^aT cboh 3aHac ^eHer? KaK bh^hb^t napHa? Echh ^eTeH ToMy, hto KacaeTca ^ener, Hpo^oa^araT yHHTb hx po,aHTeaH, 5oabraHH- ctbo h3 kotophx 5y,ayT hhh y^e 5e^HHe? TaK KaK y Mena 5hho ^Ba oTpa, oKa3HBara^Hx na Mena BHHaHHe, a yHHaca y o5ohx. Mne HpHxo^Haocb ^yMaTb o coBeTe Ka^^oro oTpa, a HocTyHaa TaK, a HpHo5peTaa 5ecpeHHoe BHyTpeHHee HoHHMaHHe toto, KaK HbH-To mhchh mo^ho h o^^eKTHBHo BHHaraT Ha Hbra-To ^H3Hb. HaHpHMep, o,^hh oTep HMea HpHBHHKy roBopHTb: He Mory ce5e ototo Ho3BoaHTb”. A ^pyroH oTep 3aHpe^aa

Hoab3oBaTbca, yHoTpe5aaTb TaKHe caoBa. Oh HacTaHBaa, hto5h a BHpa^aaca TaK: “KaK a Mory ce5e 3to Ho3BoaHTb?”. HMeeM yTBep^^eHHe H BoHpoc. Oho Ho3BoaaeT 5oaTaTbca Ha KpraHKe. MoH oTep, kotophH BcKope ^oa^eH 5hh pa35oraTeTb, o^bacnaa, hto aBToMaTHHecKH HporoBapHBaa caoBa: “^ He Mory ce5e ototo Ho3BoaHTb”, HeaoBeK ocTanaBHHBaeT pa5oTy cBoero Mo3ra. Sa^aBaH BoHpoc: “KaK a Mory ce5e 3to Ho3BoaHTb?”, BH HacTpaHBaeTe cboH mo3t na pa5oTy. Ey,ay^HH 5oraTHH oTep ne Ho^pa^yMeBaa HoayHaTb Bce, hto xoTeaocb. Oh 5hh ^anaToM b Haane TpeHHpoBKH cBoero Mo3ra, Mo^neHraero KoMHbrarepa B MHpe. “MoH mo3t KpeHHaeT h3o ^Ha b ^eHb, hotom^ hto a ero TpeHHpyra. HeM cHHbHee moH mo3t, TeM 5oabrae ^eHer a Mory 3apa5oTaTb”. Oh 5hh