All praise is due only to Allaah. We laud Him and beseech His

TEST PAGE
Respected grooms! Study the under-mentioned questions 
properly and read over each one thrice. Thereafter, with an 
unbiased and impartial mind render an answer to each one, 
truthfully. If the answer to a question is 
Yes
then give 10 points 
and if the answer is partly 
Yes
and partly 
No
, give yourself 5 
points. Finally if the answer is 
No
, give yourself a zero. There 
is a space after each question. You should write your answer 
there and also your appropriate points. 
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1.
Do you awaken your wife with love and affection each 
morning after you have performed made your Tilaawat 
and Tasbeehs? Together with this, do you awaken your 
children for Fajr Salaat and if there are big children 
(boys), do you make a concerted effort at taking them to 
the Musjid with you and perform Fajr Salaat with 
Takbeer-e-Oola
? 
Answer:…………………………………………………………………
………………………………………… 
Points: …………………. 
 
2.
Do you take your wife at least once a month or once in 
two months for a suitable outing, where the laws of 
hijaab are adhered to and which is within your means? 
Answer:…………………………………………………………………
………………………………………… 
Points: …………………. 
3.
Do you make special time each day to read a Deeni 
Kitaab, like 
Fazaail-e-Aamaal
or 
Fazaail-e-Sadaqaat
, 
to your family? 
Answer:…………………………………………………………………
………………………………………… 
Points: …………………. 
4.
D you take your wife to listen to the sermons of pious 
Ulama whenever the opportunity arises? 
Answer:…………………………………………………………………
………………………………………… 

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always praise your wife and be grateful for what she does for 
you. You will find her more loving and attentive towards you. 
8). 
When we study the cases of the many arguments and 
fights between spouses then we realise that 90% of them are 
caused either when the husband leaves the home or when he 
walks into the home on retuning from the shop or office. Keep 
these two times in mind. It is when shaitaan takes advantage of 
the situation that it gets out of hand. Remember that arguing 
and bickering between spouses chases the mercy of Allaah 
Ta`ala away. 
9). 
If you are staying away from your parent’s home, then 
occasionally send gifts to them through your wife. Send freshly 
cooked food for them, occasionally. Whenever you visit them, 
then try not to go empty-handed, always take something or the 
other as a gift for them. If you are living with your parents, then 
never give the impression that you have more affection for your 
wife than towards your mother. 
10). 
Remember! Children are children and not saints. Never 
fall into an argument with your wife on account of the children. 
You should take charge of the house for only one day and 
Insha-Allaah Ta`ala you will understand (her predicament). 
Similarly, in the interest of your children’s upbringing and the 
health of your wife, it is preferable to have a sufficient gap 
between conceiving children.