All praise is due only to Allaah. We laud Him and beseech His

The 
Wasiyyat
 of a pious woman to her husband 
Muslim women should also ask for forgiveness from their 
husbands, for having displeased them at any time, or for hurting 
his feelings, or for not having fulfilled his rights, etc. 
In this regard Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said, 
“That 
woman who dies in the state that her husband is pleased with 
her, will enter Jannat.” 
[Tirmidhi, page 325, vol. 4] 
A woman should ask her husband for forgiveness for her past 
mistakes and she should make an attempt at pleasing her 
husband in the future. Yes, she will not obey him in matters 
which are contrary to the teachings of Islaam. She will also not 
obey him if he prevents her from carrying out something which 
the Shariah orders her to do. In this regard, she should study 
Bahishti Zewar
and learn what is expected from a Muslim 
woman. 
Women should use the under-mentioned points and change 
them to suit her particular situation, when making out a 
Wasiyyat
to her husband: 
1. 
Alhamdulillah, I am not in the habit of putting nail 
polish, and even if I ever did use it then I would always remove 
it thoroughly before making wudhu or ghusal. If my death has 
to come in this state (that I have nail polish) then please first 

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have the polish removed before ghusal is made on me. Ghusal 
is not proper if nail polish is not removed, neither will Salaatul 
Janaazah, therefore please make sure it is removed. 
2. 
Good Muslim women encourage their sons and 
grandsons to do hifz of Qur`aan Majeed and to become good 
practicing Aalims. She encourages them to learn Arabic and 
she teaches them good Islaamic character. This she should put 
in her 
Wasiyyat
. 
If her children have already grown big, then she should leave 
them with the advice that although she could not make them 
huffaaz or Ulama, at least they should endeavour to make their 
sons Huffaaz or Ulama. 
She should remind them that the Kalimah of Allaah Ta`ala is 
the greatest and takes precedence over everything else. They 
should spend all their time and energies in Deeni projects and 
in spreading and propagating the Deen, in the proper way. 
3. 
She should advise her husband to take another wife 
after her demise so that he may attain peace, comfort and 
contentment. This also, so that he may be saved fro perpetrating 
Haraam. She should also remind him to make sure that his new 
wife does not oppress and vent her frustrations on her children. 
4. 
That he and her children make an effort to carry out 
deeds of 
Isaal-e-Thawaab
for her. 
5. 
He should destroy your I.D. and passport photos, lest 
you suffer on account of them lying around and others looking 
at it. 
6. 
When the children become of age, then after consulting 
with elders and making proper investigations and following 
proper procedures he should get them married. He must make 
sure that the future son-in-law is Deeni conscious. 
7. 
He must also remember to make arrangements for 
separate living quarters for any future daughter-in-law, so as to 
avoid any problems and to maintain peace and harmony in the 
home. They must try to keep the Nikah ceremony simple and 
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save the money intended for a large ceremony towards and for 
the benefit of their son and daughter-in-law.