Обними меня крепче. 7 диалогов для любви на всю жизнь

Диалог 5. Простить обиды

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1. Herman, Judith. Trauma and Recovery. Basic Books, 1992.
2. Simpson, Jeffry, and William Rholes. Stress and secure base relation
ships in adulthood. In Attachment Processes in Adulthood, Kim
Bartholomew and Dan Perlman (editors), Jessica Kingley Pub lisher, 1994,
pp. 181–204.
Диалог 6. Любить и прикасаться, чтобы стать ближе
1. Davis, Deborah, Phillip Shaver, and Michael Vernon. Attachment
style and subjective motivations for sex. Personality and Social Psychology
Bulletin, 2004, vol. 30, pp. 1076–1090.
2. Field, Tiffany. Touch. MIT Press, 2003.
3. Gillath, Omri, and Dory Schachner. How do sexuality and attach
ment interrelate? In Dynamics of Romantic Love: Attachment, caregiving
and sex, Mario Mikulincer and Gail Goodman (editors), Guilford Press,
2006, pp. 337–355.
4. Harlow, Harry. Learning to Love. Jason Aronson, 1978.
5. Hazan, Cindy, D. Zeifman, and K. Middleton. Adult romantic
attachment, affection and sex. Paper presented at the International
Conference on Personal Relationships, Groningen, Netherlands, 1994.
6. McCarthy, Barry, and Emily McCarthy. Rekindling Desire.
Brunner/Routledge, 2003.
7. Michael, Robert, John Gagnon, Edward Laumann, and Gina Kolata.
Sex in America: A definitive survey. Little, Brown and Company, 1995.
8. Montagu, Ashley. Touching. Harper and Row, 1978.
9. Simpson, Jeffry, and S. Gangestad. Individual differences in
sociosexu ality: Evidence for convergent and discriminant validity. Journal
of Personality and Social Psychology, 1991, vol. 60, pp. 870–883.
10. Stern, Daniel. The Present Moment in Psychotherapy and
Everyday Life. Norton, 2004.
Диалог 7. Поддерживать огонь любви
1. Johnson, Susan, and Leslie Greenberg. The differential effects of
experiential and problem solving interventions in resolving marital conflict.

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Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 1985, vol. 53, pp. 175–184.
2. Main, Mary. Metacognitive knowledge, metacognitive monitoring
and singular (coherent) vs. multiple (incoherent) models of attach ment. In
Attachment Across the Life Cycle, Colin Murray Parkes, Joan Stevenson-
Hinde, and Peter Marris (editors), Routledge, 1991, pp. 127–159.
3. Schor, Juliet. The Overworked American. Basic Books, 1992.