John Gottman reports
: Gottman, Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, 155.
And they assign blame to a trait
: This has been studied by Raymond Knee, and
I have found this in my work with Lara Kammrath. (See also the work of
Frank Fincham.)
So once people with the fixed mindset
: The idea that a
fixed mindset can undermine relationships is also found in the work of Roy
Eidelson and Norman Epstein, and of Susan Hendrick and Clyde Hendrick.
The idea of criticism—attacking the partner’s personality or character—
leading to contempt is explored in the work of John Gottman.
Brenda and Jack were clients
: Daniel B. Wile, After the Honeymoon: How
Conflict Can Improve Your Relationship (New York: John Wiley & Sons,
1988).
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