All praise is due only to Allaah. We laud Him and beseech His

Naivety is laudable in women
In this present generation many things (ideologies) have turned 
upside down. The fact of the matter is that there may be some 
trait which is regarded as a flaw in man but laudable in women. 
Even if we study the Qur`aan Majeed, we will see this where 
some things may be a defect in a man and yet the same thing is 
commendable in a woman. For example, it is a flaw in the 
character of a man that he be ignorant and naïve. A man is 
supposed to be aware of the happenings around him and not 
oblivious of his surroundings. On the other hand, Allaah Ta`ala 
praises women who are 
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(unwary, naïve/women who are 
oblivious of what happens around them) [Surah Noor, Aayat 
23] 
From this we gather that for a woman to be oblivious and 
unwary of what happens around her in the world and only 
concerns herself with her own obligations and duties is a 
praiseworthy and laudable trait. 
Never try to straighten her by force
There are things which may be a flaw in men and not in women 
and vice versa. Therefore you should not treat women with 
disdain when they do something which you may deem 
inappropriate. This is the very nature of a rib that it appears 
bent and if this irks you and you try to straighten it, it will 
break. 
Some habits of hers are laudable
Regarding this there is a Hadith from Hadhrat Abu Hurairah 
(radhiallahu anhu), 
“It has been reported from Abu Hurairah 
(radhiallahu anhu) who said, ‘Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi 
wasallam) said, ‘A believing man should not detest a believing 
woman (his wife). If he dislikes one trait of hers, there is 
(surely) another with which he is happy.”
[Saheeh Muslim, 
Kitaabur Ridaa’] 
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Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) is teaching us a lesson that 
when two human beings live together then there is surely to be 
a conflict, where the one may find some things dislikeable in 
the other. In such circumstances he should reflect on the good 
qualities of his partner. It is a sign of ungratefulness that 
because of one or two dislikeable traits in the wife, the man 
finds reason to complain endlessly. He should keep the words 
of Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) in mind.