Why Men Love Bitches

In a relationship of any kind,
if one person feels the other person isn’t bringing
anything to the table, he or she will begin to
disrespect that person.
Again, it’s not a question of whether he pays most of the bills, it’s
a question of whether you can still stand on your own two feet, if
push comes to shove. Then he doesn’t have the title, he’s merely
leasing with the option to buy. He can feel like the “head of
household.” Remember, he should feel like the Grand Poo-Bah
over his habitat and his domain. But he should never feel that he

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holds the key to your livelihood.
The ability to take care of yourself ensures that all of the
following will remain intact:
1. The mental challenge
2. The respect
3. The longevity of the relationship
4. The sexual desire
A case in point. Roxanne, who could be described as a “gold
digger,” lived with Kent at his Malibu estate. She drove a Mercedes
Benz and made regular shopping sprees on Rodeo Drive. Her
survival, her livelihood, and her whole existence were contingent on
Kent, a man she didn’t particularly care for. Although on the surface
she appeared to have it all, she had completely given up her pink
slip.
One day, I drove to Roxanne’s place to pick her up for lunch.
Before we left, she opened a drawer and took out some cash, and
said she had to make a quick deposit into her account. She had
bounced a check for $20. She then said, “Kent lets me keep my
pride. He puts the money in a drawer, so I don’t have to ask for it.”
In this example, there was no pride to be “kept.” Pride is . . .
having your own paycheck. There is only one thing better than
“With Love” and that is the phrase, “Pay to the order of”.
In the above example with Roxanne, there is no question that the
problem was financial. Kent even suggested that she get a parttime
job. He said, “I’d respect you more if you had a job.” Still, she

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didn’t make an effort to look for work. And two weeks later, she
was tearfully packing her Gucci bags.
Being a gold digger never pays, as evident by the headline stories
on the news. As a matter of fact, gold diggers recently suffered an
even bigger setback: 
Viagra.
Now she’s working twice as hard for
equal pay. And no dental benefits.
All a woman has to do to balance the relationship is pay an
electric bill with her own money or bring home groceries from time
to time. Any of these things express her gratitude; then the man is
happy to pay for everything else. He doesn’t have to feel it’s always
equal, just 
reciprocal.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #82