Why Men Love Bitches

Work = Money = Keeping your pink slip =
The ability to choose the way you
want to be treated = Dignity
What mothers may or may not elaborate on is how a man feels
about a woman when he has to carry her financially. Before long
he’ll feel as though she’s an added responsibility instead of an asset.
At that point, he’ll stop viewing her as a privilege to be with.
This doesn’t apply to a woman taking care of children. When a
family is involved, no doubt she will be doing her part . . . and then
some. He won’t perceive her as dead weight, because he knows
her job can sometimes be harder than his. In this case a father
recognizes that he prefers his job over hers, so he can’t help but
respect her
for her work.
As long as you have the resources to choose your terms, you
keep your pink slip and you keep your power. If you choose to
leave, you can always grab a suitcase and go. This very
independence makes him 
not want you to leave.

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All the “feistiness,” or “sexiness,” or bitchy attitude in the world
won’t change a man’s awareness that you cannot hold your own
with respect to your livelihood.
Once you hand over that pink slip, he feels trapped because
you’ve now become a 
responsibility,
rather than a privilege. And
that feels like something he is 
stuck
with. He has to provide food
for two, housing for two, and pay all the other bills for two. It
doesn’t take long for him to feel the added pressure and the
doubled responsibility of carrying not only himself but also another
person.
A bitch will usually maintain her independence and contribute to
the relationship in some way because her pride won’t allow her to
be perceived as a burden on someone else. And she won’t put
herself in a position where she can’t rock the boat, which she 
will
do if and when she feels that she isn’t being regarded highly enough.
It’s important to let him know you place your dignity above all
else, even if you’re dating a very successful man. He has to feel that,
if he mistreats you, you’ll pack up and move out of his mansion into
a one-bedroom without any hesitation. He has to feel you’ll drive a
Pinto rather than a Mercedes Benz, if it means you’ll be tolerating
disrespect. He has to know you’ll give up a comfortable lifestyle
before you’ll accept being misused or mistreated.
Usually this can be conveyed with actions, but sometimes it can
be expressed with words. For example, let’s say you’re watching
the TV movie 
The Burning Bed
in which Farrah Fawcett plays an
abused woman who, in every other scene, is sporting a new black

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eye. You can use this as a tender “loveydovey moment” in which to
express your 
Terms of Endearment
for your man, while eating
popcorn. Simply turn and look at him, gaze into his eyes and say, “I
would sooner be flipping burgers at McDonalds.”
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #77