Why Men Love Bitches

If you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to
protect you and he’ll want to give you the world.
Once you’re in charge of that relationship, you’re giving him what
he needs (power) and he 
doesn’t even know it.
It works with even
the smartest men. Here’s what Albert Einstein said about his wife
on their fiftieth wedding anniversary:
When we first got married, we made a pact. It was this: In

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our life together, it was decided I would make all of the
big decisions and my wife would make all of the little
decisions. For fifty years, we have held true to that
agreement. I believe that is the reason for the success in
our marriage. However, the strange thing is that in fifty
years, there hasn’t been one big decision.
The dumb fox doesn’t have to “obey” her man as in, “I promise
to love, honor, and 
obey
until death do us part.” She has her own
rendition of the marital vows. She “promises to love, honor, and
appear to be agreeable some of the time.”
This is not a lesson in how to give up your power or become
more docile. This is a lesson in how to gain power because you
appeal to a man and make him channel his energies 
toward you.
Men need a little help when it comes to emotions, because they
aren’t always aware of what motivates them. You have to make him
think he’s in charge; then he’ll be much more attuned to what you
need and he’ll apply much more effort to please you. It keeps him
stimulated and it keeps his interest. Then he wants to give you the
reins; at which point, you will have all the power that you need.
The Dumb Fox Is a Clever Negotiator
Now that women are long established in the work force, men don’t
feel they’re 
needed
as much. Even though they work as hard, they
don’t get the feeling of being appreciated as the “man of the house”
as much as they used to. As Erica Jong said, “Beware of the man
who praises women’s liberation. He’s about to quit his job.”

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Women who are successful in other areas of life are often the
ones who find themselves saying, “I should not have to apologize
for being strong.” Then the following week they wonder why they
“can’t find a good man.” Because a good man wants a good 
w-o-
m-a-n.
Being a bitch does not mean you lose your femininity. And it
also doesn’t mean you overtly try to wear the pants in the house. It
just means you don’t allow anyone to walk all over you.
The classic superwoman wants a relationship in which the man
and woman are “equals.” This is a nice theory, but in practice it
becomes a onesided relationship pretty quickly.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #38