Why Men Love Bitches

Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically
start doing things you want done because he’ll always
want to look like “a king” in your eyes.
A couple of times a week when he’s kind or generous, let him
know he’s the top dog. Make him feel as though he’s the alpha-dog
and the Grand Poo-Bah. He wears the pants, and he is the man.
Meanwhile, guess who is getting her way?
My friend Annette learned this the hard way. She made the
mistake of telling her new boyfriend about how she had killed a
snake in her backyard. He asked her, “How in the world did you
kill it?” She went on in detail about how she used a very large
shovel to “do battle.” A look of complete and utter horror came

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over his face as she gave him a graphic play-by-play of the brutal
“massacre.” Later that night, he couldn’t get an erection.
An obvious “penile” code infraction: When you act too much like
Tarzan, he feels too much like Jane. Don’t even kill a bug when he’s
around. Don’t change a tire. In fact, don’t even change a light bulb.
(Heaven forbid, sister.)
For any red-blooded male, the feeling that he is the “man” is the
ticket. This doesn’t mean that you should be docile all the time. At
the same time that you show him you offer him “a mental challenge,”
remember that he needs to have his ego stroked. There is a very big
difference between catering to his ego and appearing 
needy.
You
shouldn’t show that you “need” him to help you with:
Common sense
Coping with everyday life
Emotional stability
Reassurance of your self-worth
Self-esteem
Feeling complete as a person
These things signify 
neediness.
However, you 
can
show that you
need and appreciate his 
masculinity.
He’ll absolutely eat out of
your hand when he feels that you like his “manliness” or that you
admire his . . . brawn.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #33