Why Men Love Bitches

A man feels he’s won, or conquered a woman,
when she eats out of the palm of his hand.
At which point, he begins to get bored.
The Bitch Is Never Fully Conquered
So why do men love bitches? With a bitch, they never feel as
though they've quite conquered her, so they keep trying. Some men
try for a lifetime.
When a man is with a woman who is willing to bend over
backward, it almost invites mistreatment. Charlotte catered to her
boyfriend, Tom, 
constantly.
His interest was starting to fade.

---

Charlotte thought she’d win Tom back by throwing a party for
him on the beach. She planned an elaborate party and invited all his
friends. She also decided to pay over $3,000 to hire a sky-writing
service for the event. There were two planes and they made a big
beautiful heart in the sky followed by the words, “I love you
always.” Once the planes arrived overhead, it took almost a half-
hour for them to do an exquisite job. When they were finished,
everyone was in awe. It was breathtaking, and everyone thought so
— 
except
Tom (who had unfortunately called an hour previously to
say he couldn’t make it). By then, it was too late for Charlotte to
get a refund on the fortune she had spent. She tried to cancel, but it
was too late. The planes had already taken off and were en route to
the party.
The example with Charlotte is not uncommon. This is what
happens when a woman is 
too nice
and will jump through hoops: 
It
invites bad behavior.
While the nice girl loses her mind, the bitch, on the other hand,
makes the man lose his. When a woman keeps a level head, a man
will often become much more intrigued with her. He’ll think about
her constantly, he won’t be able to get enough of her, and he’ll
eventually decide he can’t live without her.
It’s a basic difference between men and women: Women want
safety and predictability and men long for excitement, danger, and
unpredictability. As a child, the nice girl played with Barbie and her
Ken doll; she grew up with the mental image that she, too, would
live “happily ever after.” Little boys want nothing to do with the Ken

---

doll—they identify with 
exciting
figures who live dangerously, like
Batman, Superman, and Spiderman.
Ask any mother which child she finds more trouble-some—a son
or a daughter. Most mothers confess that boys are more difficult,
especially if there are more tha n one. Why? For most men, safe =
boring. So they look for ways to add excitement and danger, and
go out of their way to pursue things that are difficult. It’s this very
element of danger
that draws him to a bitch.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #96