Why Men Love Bitches

The Sweet Spot
When a man and a woman become lovers, there are still behaviors
that differentiate the doormat and the dreamgirl.
One of the biggest mistakes the nice girl makes is she competes
with other women. She may ask him about another woman in the
room, “Is she pretty?” Or, she may be competing with whatever she
thinks
he fantasizes about: a model, a centerfold, a stripper, or a
porn star.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #28
If he makes you feel insecure,
let your insecurity be your guide.
It’s often said that a woman doesn’t reach her sexual peak until
after she turns thirty. It takes a lot of women until then to overcome
their insecurity or the feeling that they have to compete with other
women. Sex becomes better because she can tell him what she
likes. She’s more secure. She’s more assertive. She can let go
because she is not self-conscious.
A lot of women feel pressured to live up to an ideal. Or they feel
that in the bedroom they have to put on a riveting performance. I’ve
even heard some men critique women and say, “The louder she
screams, the better.”
A look at how widespread pornography has become only
confirms how unrealistic the standards have become. Even porn

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movies utilize fake “voiceovers.” This means that the girl screaming,
“Yes! Yes! Give it to me, yes!” is often a fully dressed 400-pound
woman who is sitting on a stool in a studio and screaming into a
microphone.
The bitch doesn’t usually define herself by outside standards. But
often, women who are 
too
nice are 
too
busy trying to measure up.
When a woman is 
too
concerned with performance issues in bed,
she completely forgets why she’s there in the first place. It’s not
sex; it’s “animation” time.