he’s breaking out the drinks for a celebration.
Ten years later, if you were to ask him about that game-winning
final play, he’d describe it as though it happened yesterday. The
same thing happens when a woman gives herself over slowly. He
becomes much more excited about it.
This may sound “old school,” but rest assured it is advice based
on
countless
interviews I conducted with men, both young and old.
A perfect example is Nathan. He just turned twenty-five, and he
does pretty well with the ladies. Here’s what he had to say, word-
for-word:
If she gives it up too soon, we stop with the romance and
we stop working at it. And truthfully, we’d
rather
be
working hard at it. We enjoy playing the game, and if it
ends too soon, we’re disappointed. We even struggle
inside, subconsciously. We know we want to get it, but we
know we want the girl to make us wait. Otherwise, it’s a
one- or a two-time thing. And then you move on.
Granted, there are some men who don’t want to invest any
effort. These are the men who subscribe to the “three-date rule.”
This rule holds that if a woman doesn’t put out by the third date, the
man should stop pursuing her altogether.
There are men who truly want to find a woman they can spend
time with. However, the “three-date rule” is for men who have ruled
out this option entirely; they just want to hit and run. If a man leaves
because he didn’t
score by the third date, it’s a clear signal he
would have left after getting it anyway.
The nice
girl is more likely to feel
obligated, pressured,
or
manipulated
to sleep with a man early on. She sleeps with him and
then believes she’ll hook him with great sex, as though what she has
to offer sexually is “golden.” The bitch understands that the sex only
becomes “golden” when he doesn’t get it right away.
Don’t be misled by the fact that men want it quick and they are
accustomed to having it be easy.
If given the option, most men
would love to know how much it would take—the
bottom-line
dollar figure—to get a woman into bed. It’s almost as if there is an
unspoken
transaction between the guy and the nice girl, in which a
bartered transaction takes place: “Lookie, here. I’m willing to spend
the equivalent of two dinners, a bouquet of flowers, and a movie—
for a grand total of $255.92. And not a penny more.”
He budgets how much he can spend and wants to know how
much it will cost.
The bitch is smarter.
She knows that if he’s not pursuing her,
he’ll pursue someone else. So whatever his budget is, large or small,
she makes sure it is spent on her and on no one else. In her mind,
she’s the best investment he’ll ever make.
The “three-date rule” will fall on deaf ears with the bitch. She’ll
let the guy walk—and she won’t barter. He will end up marrying the
woman who doesn’t play by his rules; she plays by her own. Since
she has no problem allowing the words
See ya later
to trip lightly
off
her tongue, he usually doesn’t feel as if he can get away with
disrespecting her.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #25
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