WHAT ARE THE CHARACTERISTICS OF HAPPY PEOPLE?
Research on the subject of well-being shows that happy people share several character-
istics (Myers, 2000; Diener & Seligman, 2002; Otake, Shimai, & Tanaka-Matsumi, 2006):
• Happy people have high self-esteem. Particularly in Western cultures, which
emphasize the importance of individuality, people who are happy like
subjective well-being
People’s own
evaluation of their lives in terms
of both their thoughts and their
emotions.
Positively framed messages suggest that
a change in behavior will lead to a
health-related gain.
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themselves. They see themselves as more intelligent and better able to get
along with others than the average person. In fact, they often hold positive
illusions or moderately infl ated views of themselves as good, competent, and
desirable (Taylor et al., 2000; Boyd-Wilson, McClure, & Walkey, 2004).
• Happy people have a fi rm sense of control. They feel more in control of events in
their lives, unlike those who feel they are the pawns of others and who
experience learned helplessness.
• Happy individuals are optimistic. Their optimism permits them to persevere at tasks
and ultimately to achieve more. In addition, their health is better (Peterson, 2000).
Applying Psychology
in the 21st Century
Catching Happiness:
The Contagion of Emotions
and Health
The next time you get the fl u, there will
almost certainly be someone you can
blame for your pain. There’s the inconsid-
erate co-worker who decided to drag
himself to the offi ce and spent the day
sniffl ing, sneezing and shivering in the
cubicle next to yours. Or your child’s best
friend, the one who showed up for a
playdate with a runny nose and a short
supply of tissues. Then there’s the guy at
the gym who spent more time sneezing
than sweating on the treadmill before you
used it. (Park, 2008, p. 74)
It’s often reasonable to blame someone else
if you get sick. Contagious diseases, such
as colds or fl u, tend to work their way
through social networks moving from one
person to another.
Similarly, if you’ve ever used Facebook,
you already know how social networks op-
erate: You have a circle of friends, and each
of them has a circle of friends, and the
many connections among all these people
form a network. Moreover, if you’ve ever
shared a web link with your Facebook
friends, you’ve seen just how quickly infor-
mation can spread through this network.
But what else might spread from person
to person? Can we “infect” others with our
emotions or our behaviors?
New research suggests that in fact emo-
tions are contagious and that the effect can
even spread beyond our immediate social
circles to people we don’t even know. Re-
searchers Nicholas Christakis and James
Fowler (2009) studied emotions in a very
large group of interrelated people. They
found that friends of happy people were
15% more likely to be happy themselves,
and that the friends of friends of happy
people were 10% more likely to be happy—
even if they didn’t even know the happy
person directly. The infl uence of the happy
person could even be found in unknown
people who were three degrees of separa-
tion away—their friend’s friend’s friend.
Christakis and Fowler also found evi-
dence that behaviors can spread across so-
cial networks in a similar way. People with
obese friends are more likely to be over-
weight themselves, and people who are
trying to quit smoking are more successful
if their friends also quit. They even noticed
that people who are smiling in their Face-
book photos tend to have friends who do
the same. The social contagiousness seems
to be stronger in mutual friendships than it
is in one-sided ones (Christakis & Fowler,
2007, 2008).
What this means is that people who ac-
quire healthy behaviors or outlooks for
themselves might “spread the wealth” to
their friends and beyond. Efforts to map
and use social networks in order to help
people live healthier lives are already un-
derway (Park, 2008).
• Why do you think happiness and other emotions might be contagious?
• What could explain the fi nding that obese people are more likely to have friends
who are obese?
RETHINK
Happiness can spread beyond our immediate social circles to people we don’t even know.
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