dovuto arrangiarmi:
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to wash for that family there. When
I’d go to the baker’s, to the butcher’s where I’d buy the
essentials — the baker said to me, “I’ll put it on account
and when your husband sends you the money, you can
pay”. I said, “No, I don’t want that!” Because when you
have it on account, you write it down in haste, but when
you finally add it up, you have to pay!… It was my
mother-in-law who told me: “[stored] in our roof there is
as much [food] as you want”… I used to buy things, yes.
She gave me rabbits because the doctor had said to
make her baby food [daughter, Maria] with rabbit’s broth.
She was weak in the legs and the veal’s leg I bought to
make broth, but I left the steak at the butcher’s. I ate
potato and fagioli [beans].
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Interview with Umberto Favero, via phone to Perth, February 2009.
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Interview with Giulio Santini, Perth, October 2009.
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I had to find ways to get by.
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Interview with Lina Tagliaferri, Perth, November 2008.
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While separation may have provided relief for some from a harsh, disciplining father,
this was not the case for brother and sister, Alvaro and Lidia Giannasi. They mourned their
father's absence. Bruno Giannasi was away in France for work. The distance and associated
high cost of travel to their Tuscan village of Castelnuovo di Garfagnana meant they saw their
father infrequently. Bruno Giannasi struggled to earn enough money to send back to his
family. The desire to be reunited led Italian families to come to Australia, where husbands
finally found permanent employment in places such as Wittenoom. Valentina Giannasi’s
story no doubt exemplifies many “widowed” immigrant women who eventually rejoined their
husbands.
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Valentina Giannasi and her two children, nine year old Alvaro and five year old
Lidia, had to wait three years to be reunited with Bruno. Not long after his arrival in Perth in
1960, friends had told him about Wittenoom where he found work immediately. Valentina
explained:
I decided because I had Alvaro who was very sickly. The
doctor was advising me not to take him to Australia. He
[the doctor] was afraid…He [Alvaro] was very sick. My
husband said, “Come, but if you see that it isn’t good for
Alvaro, I’ll send you straight back”. But I wanted to come
because… I wrote to my paesani. I said, “I want to come
to Australia! Here I have been a widow for many years. I
have to decide: or the life of a widow or my children need
a father”... Lidia especially wanted [to come to Australia].
Alvaro… didn’t want to come to Australia. “Mum, let’s not
go to Australia.”... But…I wrote to him
[Bruno]…”Wherever you take me, you take me. Even if
it’s in a stable I want to come to be with you. I want my
family to be united”.
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For a discussion see Reeder, L. (2003), Widows in White: Migration and the Transformation of Rural
Italian Women, Sicily 1880-1920 (Toronto: University of Toronto Press).
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Interview with Valentina Giannasi, Perth, October 2009.
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