The Lucifer Effect
continued to play softball as a left fielder, hitting for a good average rather than
distance. His main hobbies are hunting and fishing. He is also a "people person"
who has a great many close longtime friends with whom he has stayed in touch
over the years. He is very close to these friends, who are, he said, the kind of peo-
ple "that you would die for." Chip indicated that he also has close relations with
his niece and nephew. In general, he is a family man; he counts on his family, and
they have always been able to count on him. He loves his wife, Martha, whom he
describes as "perfect" and a "very strong woman," and he loves her daughters "as
if they were my own."
Chip is in good health and is physically fit. He has never had surgery, psycho-
logical counseling, or medication for mental problems. His only run-in with the
law came when he was nineteen as a "disturbing the peace" arrest that carried a
fine of $ 5 . 0 0 , which he received for hollering too loud and long at a night game of
"hide-and-seek." He rarely smokes, drinks only a few beers a week, and has never
used illegal drugs.
Chip describes himself in the following way: "very quiet, sometimes shy,
down to earth, softhearted, very agreeable, an overall good p e r s o n . "
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However, it
is important for us to note some additional self-descriptions: Chip usually fears
being rejected by others, and so, in any disagreement, he often gives way in order
to be accepted: he changes his mind to accommodate others so that they will not
be "mad at me or hate me." Others can influence him even when he believes that
he has made up his mind. He does not like to be alone: he likes to be around oth-
ers, and he becomes depressed when he is alone for any length of time.
Some of my research on shyness provides empirical support for this shyness-
conformity link. We have found that shy college students were likely to give in to
and agree with others whose opinions were discrepant from their own when they
believed they might have to defend their point of view openly, whereas they did
not conform when they did not have to fear a public confrontation.
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The man is superpatriotic—every day he flies the American flag in his front
yard and takes it down at sunset. He gives the flag as a gift to friends and family. "I
bought several flags to give to family, my place of business, and I flew them in
Kuwait, every one of them. I think I had nine or ten, I flew them when I was in
Baghdad, and I'd send them to my wife," he said during our interview. Chip Fred-
erick gets "goose bumps" and "teary-eyed" when he hears the National Anthem.
He wrote to me recently from his prison cell, "I am proud to say that I served most
of my adult life for my country. I was very prepared to die for my country, my
family and friends. . . . I wanted to be the one to make a difference."
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(I must
admit that such feelings seem a bit over the top to someone with my more c a u -
tious brand of patriotism.)
His sister, Mimi, has this to say about her kid brother:
Growing up with Chip was a delight for me. I am 3 months shy of being 11
years older than he is. Chip was a quiet person. He was considerate of his
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