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II-Suhbat
O’quvchidan test
Testni baholash mezoni quydagicha:
(maqullangan javob uchun + qo’ying)

№	Savollar	Ba’zan	Kamdan-kam	Tez-tez
1	Fikrimcha ,menga yetarli e’tibor berishmaydi
2	Sog’ligim yomon bo’lsada ishlashga harakat qilaman
3	Ishimni sifatidan doimo havotirlanaman
4	Men jahldorman
5	Menga tanqid umuman yoqmaydi.
6	Ko’p asabiylashaman
7	Imkon bo’lsa tashkilotchilik qilaman
8	Meni do’stlarim uddaburon inson deb biladi.
9	Meni uyqusizlik bezovta qiladi
10	Dushmanlarimga qarshilik ko’rsata olaman
11	Uydagi ko’ngilsizlikdan aziyat chekaman
12	Dam olishga vaqtim yo’q
13	Menda nizoli vaziyatlar k’op bo’ladi
14	Jahlim chiqsa, o’zimni boshqara olmayman
15	Yoqtirgan mashg’ulotim bilan shugullanishga vaqtim yetmaydi
16	Hamma narsani tez va o’zim bajaraman
17	Yo’limni yo’qotib qo’yishdan qo’rqaman
18	O’ylamasdan ish qilib ,so’ng pushaymon bo’laman
	JAMI :

Ota –onalar uchun psixolog test.

Siz odatda:

a) Farzandimni har doim qanday kayfiyatda ekanligini bilaman.
b) Farzandimni kayfiyatini kuzatmayman
v) uning kayfiyatiga e’tibor bermaslik kerak deb o’ylayman, chunki bundan yaxshilik chiqmaydi deb o’ylayman.

2.Siz o’ylaysiz

a) Farzandim bilan menning fikrim ko’p narsalarda bir xil emas
b) Siz har doim hamma qarama-qarshiliklarni farzandingiz bilan muhokama eta bilasiz
v) U sizning dunyoqarashingizga juda ham qiziqadi

3. Bayram va dam olish kunlarini birgalikda o’tkazasizmi? .

a) Alohida b) Birgalikda v) Kim qanday xohlasa shunday holda

4. sizning farzandingiz

a) Siz bilan o’z muammolarini muhokama qilmaydi ,deyarli u mustaqil
b) Har doim o’z muammolari bilan sizni bezovta qiladi
v) Siz bilan u ko’p narsalarda gaplashishni istaydi va siz uning so’zlarini xursandchilik bilan tinglashga tayyorsiz

5. Agar farzandingiz bilan bir kun birga bo’lsangiz, shunda u

a) o’zini do’stday tuta boshlaydi
b) Sizni xursand qiladi,
v) o’zidan xijolat bo’ladi.sizdan tortinadi

Hurmatli ota-onalar: Test javoblari orasidan sizga tegishli bo’lgan qatorini belgilab bering

Psixolog maslahati:
Hurmatli ota-onalar ! Shuni bilinki, hyech qachon odobsiz bola tug’ilmaydi. Uni muhit, siz va biz shu tarzda arbiyalaymiz. Psixologiyada, uning usullaridan foydalana olgan pegagoglar va ota-onalar ta’lim –tarbiya jarayonida salbiy holatlarni vujudga keltirmaydi.
Demak, bolani muhit tarbiyalaydi, muhit ta’sirini esa ko’p jihatdan ota-ona belgilaydi.
1. Agar bola tanqid bilan yashasa ,u ayblanishni o’rganadi.
2. Agar adovat bilan yashasa ,u urishishni o’rganadi.
3. Agar bola qo’rquv bilan yashasa ,u qo’rqoqlikni o’rganadi.
4. Agar bola afsusda yashasa ,u afsuslanishni o’rganadi.
5. Agar bolani ustida ko’p kulishsa ,u uyatchan bo’ladi
6. Agar bola qiziqish bilan yashasa ,u havas qilishni o’rganadi
7. Agar bola qo’llab –quvvatlash bilan yashasa ,u o’ziga ishonchni o’rganadi
8. Agar bola bag’rikenglikda yashasa ,u sabrli bo’lishni o’rganadi
9. Agar bola uyat bilan yashasa ,u aybdorlik hissini o’rganadi
10. Agar bola maqtov bilan yashasa ,u qadrlashni o’rganadi .
11. Agar bola tan olish bilan yashasa ,sevishni o’rganadi
12. Agar bola rostgo’ylik bilan yashasa u haqiqatni o’rganadi
13. Agar bola vavfsizlikda yashasa u o’ziga ,atrofdagilarga ishonadi
14.Agar bola do’stlik bilan yashasa ,u yer yuzi yashash uchun ajoyib joy ekanligini anglaydi
15. Agar ota-ona osoyishtalik bilan yashasa ,farzandi ham osoyishtalikda yashaydi
II1-suhbat:

Hurmatli ota-onalar! Farzandingiz qalbi va ongiga ta’sir ko‘rsatayotgan omillarni bilasizmi?Sizningcha ularning qay biri, zamonaviy bilim olishlari va kasb-hunar egallashiga to‘siq bo‘lmoqda va qay biri madad bo‘lmoqda?

Ijobiy tomoni –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––Salbiy tomoni –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Ota –onalar uchun psixolog savoli
1,Sizningcha, oilangiz ahilmi?––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
2.Oilangizda oilaviy nizolar bo’lib turadimi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
3.O’z uyingizda o’zingizni xotirjam sezasizmi?––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
4.Sizni oilangizda bo’ladigan janjallar tezda unitiladimi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
5.Oilangizda asabni buzuvchilar bormi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
6.Uyingizni “Bizning qo’rg’onimiz”deb ishonch bilan ayta olasizmi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
7.Mehmon kelsa uyingizga quvonch olib keladimi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
8. Oilangizda bolalarni kim yupatadi,qo’llab –quvvatlaydi?––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
9. Oilangizda og’ir xaraktetli odam bormi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
10. Oilangizda oila a’zolari bir-birini yaxshi tushinishadimi?––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
11. Oilangizda og’ir yumushlarni kim bajaradi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
12. Oilangizda baland ovozda musiqa tinglanadimi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
13. Oila a’zolaringiz xato ish qilib qo’ysa bir-biridan uzr so’raydimi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––
14. Aytaylik ,bugun maktabda otalar yig’lishi va shu kuni qarindoshingizda to’y –maraka bor . Qay birini tanlaysiz?––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
15. Ota-ona sifatida farzandingizni yutuqlarini qanday so’zlar bilan baholaysiz?––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
16. Maktabdan yoki mahalladan farzandingiz orqali tanbeh eshitdingiz. Qanday yo’l tutasiz?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
17. .Farzandingizni omadsizligida o’zingizni aybdor hisoblaysizmi?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
18. .”Mehnatsiz istak-kesilgan kurtak”.Buni qanday tushinasiz?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
Savollarga aniq va qisqa javob bering
Hurmatli onajonlar, ushbu savollarga
Sizning shaxsiy fikringiz qanday?
1.Sizningcha farzand tarbiyasining asosi nima bo‘lishi kerak?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
2.Tarbiyada qaysi jihatlarga doim katta e’tibor berish keragu, qaysi omillarga ko‘z yumish lozim? –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
3.Ayting-chi, oilada o‘g‘il bolatar biyasi bilan kim ko‘proq shug‘ullanishi maqsadga muvofiq?––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
4.Sizningcha, farzandlar tarbiyasini ikki usulga “qiz” yoki ”o‘g‘il”ga ajratish shartmi?.––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
5.”Qiz — loy, ona — kulol”. Buni qanday tushinasiz?–––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––
6.Farzandingizni kelajagini qanday tasavvur qilasiz? –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

O’z kuchingizga ishoning.Psixolog maslahat.
O’z –o’ziga ishontirish yo’li bilan ichki shaxsiy imkoniyatlarga ko’maklashish usullari borligini bilasizmi?
O’z –o’ziga ishontirish ijobiy va salbiy bo’ladi.Masalan:”Esimdan chiqarib yuboryapman, tishunmayapman,o’rtoqlarimdan orqada qolyapman ” kabi so’zlarni qanchalik ko’p ishlatsangiz,bu so’zlar miyangizda o’rnashib qoladi va imkoniyatlar susayadi.”Sovuq gap sovuqlik keltiradi”deb eshitganmisiz.
Shuning uchun har kuningizni “MEN O’ZIMGA ISHONAMAN!”, ”MEN IRODALIMAN ”,”MEN QILA OLAMAN ”degan qat’iy so’zlar bilan boshlang.(7-8 marta ) Tajribalardan ma’lumki, o’z –o’zini ishontirish shaxsning chala uyqu holatida juda yaxshi samara beradi.Bu holat uyquga ketishdan bir oz oldin, yoki uyg’onish oldidan tabiiy ravishda paydo bo’ladi.
Aziz tinglovchi ,ishoning , bu kun sizning imkoniyatlaringizni ro’yobga chiqaradigan kun. Bu uchun siz ertaroq uyg’oning, ochiq havoga chiqing ,ufqdan ko’tarilayotgan quyosh nuriga yuzingizni, badaningizni tuting. Barcha sezgi organlaringiz bilan quyoshdan, samodan kelayotgan quvvatni his qiling.
Siz bu quvvat orqali, har kunkidan ko’ra bugun han ruvan, ham jisman sog’lom ekanligingizni , ishlab charchamaydigan chaqqon ,birovlarga yaxshilik qilishga shay ekanligingizni his qilasiz va shu bilan bir qatorda yoqimli qo’shiq eshitgingiz yoki xirgoyi qilgingiz kelayotgani sezasiz.
Demak, biz ishonamiz,buginki kuningiz siz uchun eng samarali kun bolib qoladi.
Sog’lom bo’lish, ruhan ko’tarinkilik insonning o’z qo’lida .