Science without borders - 2020 ★ Volume 14
books, listen to quiet music, do light sports, have religious knowledge, that is, read
surahs and verses from the Qur'an, watch educational films, visit museums. , should go
to theaters, parks. This, of course, will help the child to grow into a full-fledged human
being. [1.]
Consider the views of thinkers on
child rearing. The great thinker, the sultan of medical science, the author of the "Laws
of Medicine" Abu Ali Ibn Sina has expressed many views on child rearing and methods
of upbringing. Ibn Sina, in his views on the moral upbringing of the child, also speaks
of the issues of housekeeping. In the process of raising a child, the parents can be the
educators in the family. The most important means of moral education is to encourage
the child to have a one-on-one conversation without touching his feelings or pride. Ibn
Sina considers the formation of moral qualities in a child as an integral part of labor,
physical and mental upbringing, as a key factor in his development as a human being.
Mirzo Ulugbek, one of the great astronomers and scientists, expressed the following
views on education. The environment in which a child is brought up plays an important
role in stimulating his interest in learning. In the family, parents need to pay special
attention to the development of their children into real people. It is clear that, as
mentioned above, the upbringing of children depends on the parents in all respects.
Now, let's talk about parental attitudes toward children. No words spoken to the
child by the parents, no type of punishment should insult the child's personality. It is a
mistake for parents to beat their children, and they will subdue their children as a result
of beating them, and they will do it again and again, believing it to be right. But they
do not even think that they are doing a deep and hidden damage to the upbringing of
their children, because they do not even think that as a child grows up, they affect his
health and behavior. When a parent beats a child, the child may grow up to be a liar, a
coward, an ignoramus, and a deceiver. Before beating children, why not listen to adults,
look for answers to the question of what is the real reason for this, take measures to
resolve it peacefully, and first of all observe the behavior of the parents, and then punish
the parent, not the child? need According to doctors, the use of physical force by
parents by children can lead to mental illness in children. It is clear that the
comprehensive treatment of children by their parents affects their health, worldview
and mental state.
If we approach the upbringing of children from a religious point of view. In our
sacred religion, it is emphasized that parents are responsible for the upbringing of their
children, or more precisely, it is the responsibility of the father to provide for the
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