Why Men Love Bitches

From Sappy to Sassy
Whenever a woman is too emotional or sappy, it can be too much
for a man, especially with a woman he barely knows. The bitch is
sassier, which is easier for a man to deal with. It’s similar to the
rougher tone men use to speak to one another.

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One man described a perfect example of how men get spooked
by too much sappy emotional talk, particularly early on in the
relationship. He was put off by receiving several tearjerking
Hallmark cards from a woman he’d just met.
Another example of this is a man who was constantly read
poems by a woman he’d just met. “They always seemed so long
and drawn out. Some of them were short and boring. But the one
thing in common is that they all sucked. ‘My love for thee.’ Or, ‘My
heart is heavy with love and it’s pushing against my rib cage.’ And
she’d cry when she read them. I started avoiding her calls.”
One man described dating a woman whom he’d known for three
weeks. He said, “A man doesn’t need to hear a woman tell him that
she loves him every thirty seconds. This woman said it over and
over again. It was like dating a cockatoo . . . Love you . . . Love
you . . . Love you . . . Love you . . . Love you!”
Men also notice if you are trying too hard to get into a
relationship. Do you have twelve sappy relationship books about
feelings on your coffee table? Do you have an ad running in the
“personals” while you pursue online dating? Do you have that one
pushy girlfriend who gives you away? You walk into your home
with him after a date and you hit the play button on your answering
machine. “Hey, girlfriend. There’s another singles event at the car
wash this Sunday. Free coffee. And I hear there’s a new batch of
divorcés coming through. The early bird catches the worm!”
Being sassy means you won’t knock yourself out.
The minute
a man feels you’re trying too hard, the challenge is over. Once you

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accidentally step into that arena, you have to win him back by
showing him that you won’t wait. You have a life. You have other
priorities, some of which come before him.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #47