Why Men Love Bitches

A man takes a woman for granted
when he’s interested, but will no
longer go out of his way.
For example, Rhonda was being taken for granted by her

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boyfriend. He asked her to “come over” late one night. She
indicated she didn’t have a car because it was in the shop. He was
seven minutes away with a car that was running fine, parked right
there in his driveway. He asked, “So, Rhonda, when will your car
be ready?” After realizing that she had no wheels, he dropped the
subject of getting together.
In this example, Rhonda was “dissed” by a guy who wanted her
to keep him warm at night but wouldn’t drive seven minutes to pick
her up. Typically, she would have nagged, but she didn’t this time.
The next time he called, Rhonda spoke to him very casually as
though he were an acquaintance. A friend. A pal. A 
muchacho.
She said, “Hey, great to hear from you. Can you call me back in a
few? I am on the other line.” He called back and she was in the
shower. Then he called a third time. They chatted a bit casually. For
the first time in their relationship, her disposition changed from
intense
to 
indifferent.
After a short while, her call waiting beeped
through and she politely ended the conversation. “Talk to you soon.
Bye, sweetie.” Almost immediately, the guy started to become
much more attentive.
Let’s hit the “pause” button. Rewind . . . now, let’s review play-
by-play. Notice how simple it was for Rhonda to get him to realize
he needs to give more.
1. He wasn’t nice.
2. He 
knows
he wasn’t nice.
3. He expected her to nag.
4. She didn’t nag.
5. He was unsure.
6. She was relaxed and self-assured.
7. She gave no explanation and no attitude.
8. He said to himself, “Uh oh. I better get busy.”

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ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #59