Why Men Love Bitches

particularly care if the place doesn’t look great or if it’s messy.
Most guys are happy to come home and plunk down on the couch
with the wornout spot and his butt imprint on it. He doesn’t care if
the sink is full of dishes from the day before or that his shoes left
muddy prints all over the carpet.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #54
When the routine becomes predictable,
he’s more likely to give you the same type of
love he had for his mother—and the odds
that he will take you for granted increase.

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When you’re standing in a grocery line and you look at people
with children, you’ll notice that the mother who has control over her
child doesn’t nag or holler. She says one sentence or she gives the
child a look. Because the child respects her and he is not sure what
will happen next, he’ll straighten up. Words are not needed to teach
a man how to treat you. A little bit of silence or distance will often
do the trick.
Sometimes as a lover you will have to set forth terms that are
also in the best interest of the “diapered one.” Why? 
He is a man.
And there will forever be a three-year-old trapped inside him.
All of the behavioral changes discussed in this chapter allow you
to keep a calm, charming, and pleasant demeanor. The objective is
to avoid being his mother and to make the transition back to being
his lover.
A man can’t correlate sexual feelings with feelings for his mother.
So be careful of the female figure that you become in his life. To
stay his lover, you have to keep him on his toes. This behavior
incites his interest and makes him come your way. He is happier
being your lover than he is when you become his mother. Granted,
he looks comfortable and content on the couch. But he isn’t content
when you become his mother because he no longer has a lover . . .
and neither do you.
The balance of this chapter gives you insight into how to turn
things around and bring him back to pursuit mode when his mind
drifts elsewhere. Men are hunters. What he gets from the nice girl is
a protective kind of motherly love that lessens his sexual desire. He
doesn’t pursue his mom. What the nice girl needs to understand is
that it takes the heat out of it for a man when you give him a

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predictable security blanket.
Women often reassure, or try to convince, a man to win him
over. But the bitch wins him over by acting as though she could take
him or leave him. Therefore, backing off in a subtle way will give
your man renewed “pep” in his step. You can also apply the advice
in this chapter:
When he seems complacent
When he waffles about whether to be in the
relationship
When he isn’t respectful
When he repeatedly ignores what you need
Let’s get started. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200—
because sister, there will be plenty of time for that later.