Why Men Love Bitches

If you make it too obvious that you’re excited
to get something, some people will be tempted to
dangle a carrot in front of your face.
“Getting a life” will make it seem like you are no longer
impetuous, or impatient. When you are relaxed, you’ve taken the
“need” out of the equation. You no longer appear needy, which
immediately changes the dynamic of a stale relationship.
If you want to renew the challenge, it is imperative to 
continue

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the activities you did before he came on the scene.
He’ll notice
the very first time you tell him that you can’t see him because of
something else you have planned. It will catch him off guard—and it
will fester.
It really throws men off if the activity appears to be something
mundane. In the previous example, it was a Tupperware party; but
anything along the lines of knitting, gardening, or pottery will do the
trick. Rest assured, his ego won’t let him lose out to a sweater, a
potted plant, or a mound of clay
No matter what you choose, as long as you are passionate about
something 
other than him,
it will draw him back in. Guaranteed.
He’ll be asking himself the same question he asked himself in the
first weeks of dating you. “How could she want to do that, when
she could be with me?”
When you will not drop everything to be with him, you’ll appear
as though you have more going for you. This will remind him of your
worth, and invariably, he will begin to come your way.
Step 2: Alter the Routine
It’s essential when renewing the mental challenge to 
alter the
routine
that he’s become accustomed to. When the mental
challenge is gone, the routine becomes predictable and he is on
“automatic pilot.” His mind can drift elsewhere because he isn’t
sufficiently being stimulated by you. So, let’s let the stimulation
commence, shall we?

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As Harry Truman said, “If you can’t convince ’em, confuse ’em.”
How? By altering the pattern completely. Give no attitude and no
complaints. Instead of seeing him regularly, make the schedule
random. Random
means he shouldn’t be able to predict like
clockwork when he’ll see you next or when he’ll hear from you
next.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #88