The Way I used to Be

I OPEN MY EYES.
I’m breathing heavy. Then barely breathing at all. My
heart races. Then stops altogether. I’m in my room. Not then, but now. And
I’m okay. 
I’m okay. I’m okay,
I repeat silently.
I stand up.
I pick up my phone.
I pace my room.
I need someone. I actually fucking need someone. Need someone now. But
I have no one to call—no one. I have left myself with absolutely no one in the
world who would ever care about what is happening to me right now.
But then I have a thought. A very stupid, masochistic thought, but now it’s
there in my head and it’s one of those thoughts that once it’s there, there’s
nothing that can be done to make it go away. My fingers press the numbers
even though my brain forbids it, just like it was two years ago, just like no
time has passed at all. The sequence of numbers ingrained in my bones and
muscle, I dial.
I practice his name: “Josh. Josh,” I whisper.
I hate myself. It’s ringing.
“Hello?”
I open my mouth. But what words could ever, ever undo these things,
what words could ever tell enough of the truth?
I hang up.
What is wrong with me?
I redial.
“Uh, hello?”
I hang up.
Just one more time . . .
“Hel-lo-o?”
I hang up again. Damn it.
I take a breath.

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Like some kind of junkie with no self-control, I just cannot stop myself. I
dial.
“Who is this?” he demands.
Oh God. His voice. Just the sound of his voice makes my heart pound.
“Hello?” he inhales. “Hello?” he exhales.
I open my mouth. But then Vanessa’s voice calls, “Edy? Edy, will you come
out here please?”
I hang up fast.
In the living room, I’m met by two incredibly intimidating looking people:
a man—a cop in uniform—and a woman who’s wearing a power suit and
introduces them both.
“Hello, this is Officer Mitchell and I’m Detective Dodgson. We’re here to
ask some questions regarding Kevin Armstrong. We understand that your
family, Mr. and Mrs. McCrorey, is very close with Mr. Armstrong and his
family, is that correct?”
Conner fumbles with the remote control as he tries to switch off the TV.
And Vanessa does something I’ve never seen her do before—she reaches for
Conner’s hand.
Caelin is suddenly on his feet, looking entirely too confrontational
considering the fact that both these people have visible guns on them. “I
already told the police everything I know, which is nothing, because nothing
happened!” Caelin practically shouts.
“We are aware of the statement you gave the campus police last week, but
we’re here today regarding a separate matter, a related but separate matter,”
the woman, Detective Dodgson, says. I feel my hand clutch at my chest.
Because I know, right away, I know there’s someone else, another girl,
someone besides the ex-girlfriend. Okay, I take a deep breath and hold it; I
plant my feet into the floor, and brace myself for something terrible.
“What is this all about?” Conner says shakily, putting his arm around
Vanessa’s shoulder.
“Look, he didn’t do anything to her, I know it!” Caelin insists.
Officer Mitchell, towering over six-foot-tall Caelin, takes a step toward
him; he doesn’t even need to speak to intimidate. Detective Dodgson

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proceeds, “We’d like to ask each of you, separately, about Kevin and Amanda
Armstrong.”
The bottom of my stomach opens up and my heart drops through.
Amanda.
Of course—of course, it would be her. I try to fade. Try to hold still and
just blend into the wall. Try to summon enough psychic power to
disintegrate, to dematerialize right here before their eyes.
“What?” Caelin whispers, even though it’s pretty clear he meant to scream
it.
“Mandy?” Vanessa says, more to herself than the detective.
“Why would you want to ask us about her?” Conner asks, all of us getting
afraid of the answer.
“But why? Why—what?” Vanessa can’t seem to formulate a sentence.
“We’re investigating a report of assault, ma’am,” Officer Mitchell says.
Detective Dodgson looks at me in a way that makes me feel naked. But she
couldn’t know, because nobody knows.
“What . . . do you . . . mean, assault?” Vanessa stutters, unable to
comprehend what we’re being told.
Caelin sits back down on the couch and just stares at an imaginary point
on the carpet—doesn’t speak, doesn’t blink.
“We’ll want to speak with each of you,” Officer Mitchell says. “Mr.
McCrorey, will you join me in the other room?” He starts walking into the
dining room, Conner follows, looking disoriented, clutching the remote
control for dear life.
The woman looks at me dead on. “Eden, right?”
Breathless, I try my best to respond: “Yeah.”
“Can we speak privately? Caelin, Mrs. McCrorey, Officer Mitchell will be
in to speak with you two shortly.”
I start toward my room, her footsteps trailing behind me.
“May I sit?” she asks, gesturing to my bed.
I nod. My heart is racing. My hands are shaking. My skin is crawling. She
sits down, and the bed creaks like it’s spilling its secrets out all over the place.
“I’d like to ask you a few questions, if that’s all right.”

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“Okay, but I really don’t know anything.” Too jumpy, Edy. Calm down.
“Really?” she asks. “Because you didn’t seem at all surprised when Officer
Mitchell told your family about the allegations against Mr. Armstrong.”
That’s not a question, though. I don’t know how I’m supposed to answer, so I
just stare. “I’d be interested in knowing why that is.”
“Why what is?” Play dumb, that’s it.
“Eden, if you have any information or knowledge regarding the
Armstrongs, now would be the time to tell us.”
“I don’t, though. I swear. I had no idea he was doing that to her.”
“Doing what, Eden?” she asks, pretending to be puzzled.
“I don’t know. Whatever he was doing, whatever he did, I don’t know.” Oh
God, she sees right through me.
“All right. Then back to my initial question?”
“Why I wasn’t surprised, you mean?”
“So, you 
weren’t
surprised?”
“No, I—I was. I was surprised—am, I mean, I 
am
surprised,” I stammer.
“No,” she says slowly, “your mother and father and brother were surprised
—shocked—but not you. Can you tell me what was going through your
mind?”
“Nothing, I don’t know, I wasn’t thinking anything.”
“You had to have been thinking something?” And she looks at me with
these eyes—these no-nonsense, no-bullshit, no-tolerance-for-lies-of-any-kind
eyes. She looks so far inside of me, as if she can see everything. Everything I
am, everything I’m not. I count the seconds of her staring into my soul: One.
Two. Three. Four. Fi—
“Let me ask another question, then. Do you think that these allegations
against Mr. Armstrong are plausible—just in your own opinion?”
“I don’t know. How should I know? I mean, I wouldn’t know.”
“I have to say, you seem awfully agitated, Eden. Are you hiding something
because you think you’re protecting Mr. Armstrong?”
“Protecting? No. And I’m not hiding anything, really.”
“Eden, I’ll be frank with you,” she says, folding her hands neatly one over
the other in her lap. “I personally spoke with Amanda, and she specifically

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mentioned your name. Told me I should be talking with you.” She gently
points her finger at me through her clasped hands. “Do you know why?”
I shake my head too hard back and forth, back and forth.
“Well, she seemed to believe that you may have some kind of information
about Mr. Armstrong. Kevin,” she adds, as if she knows the spark of rage that
just the sound of his name sets off inside of me.
I watch her watching my hands shake. I cross my arms and tuck my hands
under my arms.
“Amanda told me about an incident that happened at school earlier this
week. She said you became highly . . . emotional when discussing—”
“No! I said no. I don’t know why she mentioned me. I don’t know
anything.” I mean to shout it, to be firm and strong, but it just comes out in a
piercing whimper.
She holds me in her poker-face stare. I cannot read her at all. She stands
up, walks across my room. I think she’s leaving, but she closes the door so it’s
only open a crack. “Eden,” she says softly. “I’m going to ask you something
and I need you to be very honest in your response.” She lowers her voice and
stands there like a mountain I will never be able to move. “Eden, has Kevin
ever abused or assaulted you in any way, sexual or otherwise?”
I always promised myself that if only someone would ask, if someone
would only ask the right question, I would tell the truth. And now it’s here. It
could be over in one syllable. I open my mouth. I want to say it. Yes. Yes. I try
to make a sound. Yes. Say it! But my mouth is so dry, I can’t.
I take a breath and I choke. I choke on the word. I’m actually choking. I
stand up out of my chair as if that will help anything. I start pacing the room,
losing my air quickly. I’m coughing so hard she has to race out of my
bedroom to get me a glass of water. I’m still coughing when she gets back. I
sip the water, but I choke even more, spewing it all over the carpet. My throat
feels raw.
“Can you breathe, Eden?” she asks loudly.
I nod my head yes even though I really can’t. I can’t breathe. It’s like
there’s something stuck in my throat. I cough and cough, but it doesn’t do
anything. I clutch at my neck. There’s something there, I can feel it. Can taste

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it. Something lodged in my throat, something familiar, something dry like
cotton, something like . . . like the end of that stupid damn nightgown that
went directly into the garbage the next morning.
By then Vanessa and Conner have stormed in.
“Oh my God!” Vanessa screams.
“Do something!” Conner yells at no one in particular.
The room shrinks. I shrink. And now I’m back there. I see myself over
their shoulders, lying in my bed and he’s on top of her again. I’m watching
him shove the nightgown into her mouth and nobody does a fucking thing.
She tries to hit him once, twice, but he has her arms down again and . . . and
he . . .
Vanessa: “Edy, drink the water!”
Detective: “All right, everyone calm down, let’s just give her a little space
now. She’s fine. You’re fine, honey, you’re fine.”
But I’m not fine. She’s not fine.
He’s doing it, hurting her, again and again and again and nobody even
turns to look! I try to point, want to scream: Behind you, look, damn it, notice
something for once . . . it’s right there, what you need to know, right there,
happening . . . still. . . .
“EDEN EDY EDY EDEN EDY EDY,” they scream at me all at once. I try
to scream back. But nothing. Their voices fade into the background. White
noise. Only one sound pierces through the veil of static: 
No one will ever
believe you no one will ever believe you no one will ever believe you.
Be over. Be over. I thought it was over. It was supposed to be over.
Underwater voices and blurry words surface: “Better . . . Okay . . . Edy . . .
Eden . . . She’s all right, look.”
My eyes open. I’m staring at the ceiling. I’m on the floor. There’s Vanessa
on one side, the detective on the other. I feel like Dorothy, waking up from
the strangest dream, except to an even stranger reality. Caelin and Conner are
behind them, leaning over me.
“What happened?” I ask, my voice scratchy.
“You fainted!” Vanessa screeches, tears threatening to overflow the shores
of her eyes.

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“Oh God,” I moan, trying to sit up.
“Take it easy, now. Slowly.” Detective Dodgson puts a hand on my back.
“Sorry. That’s never happened before. God, I feel so stupid.” I try to laugh
at myself. It sounds fake as hell, though.
“Well,” the detective says, standing up, “I do still have some more
questions for you, Eden, but for now why don’t you just get some rest. If you
do happen to think of anything, please don’t hesitate to call. I’ll leave my card
right here for you.” She pulls a business card out of some invisible
compartment of her jacket and sets it down on the corner of my desk, tapping
it twice with her index finger.

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