Why Men Love Bitches

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“I am going the extra mile.”
“She is trying too hard. She’s
desperate.”
“I don’t want to play
games.”
“She talks too much.”
“I am nurturing.”
“She is mothering.”
“I am giving 100 percent
so I can make it work.”
“She is 
really nice,
but there
just isn’t any chemistry”
But with the bitch? There’s no lack of sexual chemistry.
She Has That “Je Ne Sais Quoi”
Je ne sais quoi
is a French expression that translates to “I don’t
know what.” It implies “that something special” that there aren’t
words for. It is that elusive charming quality you just cannot put
your finger on. What does this quality boil down to? A woman who

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is comfortable in her own skin and cannot be made to feel bad
about herself.
It isn’t about looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day. It
isn’t about intelligence. Women of all types, from brilliant women to
women with the IQ equivalent of plant life, pull it off every day. It’s
about mystery and learning how to create intrigue.
When you lose your 
edge,
the relationship loses 
its fire.
Think of
him as the match. You are the striking board on the back of the
match cover. When the rough edge or sand wears off and starts to
become dull, it is much harder to get that spark.
For example, the man may say. “Maybe I need a little time to
think things over.” The woman who is too nice responds, “Please
don’t leave me.” Not the bitch. She offers to help him pack. Why
(choose 
A, B,
or 
C
)?
A. She is helpful.
B. He can’t pack.
C. She loves herself.
Hint:
The correct answer is 
C
. Because she loves herself, the
bitch doesn’t want anyone who doesn’t want her. She doesn’t grab
his ankles and beg for mercy. She keeps that edge. And, in doing
so, she prevents him from wanting to go.
Her aura says she doesn’t want him desperately enough, need
him desperately enough, or let him get under her skin enough. She is
driving that train. 
Effortlessly.
And it is that very ease that translates

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into charm.
Je ne sais quoi
is a sexy devil-may-care attitude. Not only isn’t
the bitch needy of him, she often isn’t focused on him.
Ever notice that when you are on the phone ignoring the man you
are with, suddenly he’ll kiss your neck and try to get your attention?
Ignore him and he is intrigued. Make him the center of attention all
the time and he runs.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #8