Why Men Love Bitches

Sometimes a man deliberately won’t call,
just to see how you’ll respond.

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It is human nature for a man to test the waters to see how much
he can get away with. You see it in the behavior of children and
even in the behavior of pets. It’s par for the course.
Pulling back is also something men do to gain reassurance. No
man is going to say, “Honey, I need reassurance about where I
stand with you.” Instead he’ll pull back to see how you’ll react.
When you react emotionally, it gives him a feeling of control. And if
you react emotionally frequently, over time he will come to see you
as less of a mental challenge. If he can’t predict how you’ll always
react, you remain a challenge.
It also gives him something he absolutely needs: the freedom to
breathe. If you don’t hear from him for a little longer than usual,
show him that you have absolutely no “attitude” about it. This
behavior will make him a little unsure about whether you miss him
(i.e., “need him”) when he isn’t around. It gives him a reason to
come your way because he won’t perceive you as needy.
Try not to say things such as “Why haven’t you called me?” or
“Why haven’t I heard from you in a week?” If you act as though
you haven’t even noticed (because time flies when you’re having
fun), he will come your way. Why? Because he doesn’t feel as
though he has a 100 percent hold on you.
A top teen magazine recently gave women the following bad
advice. They said to slip notes in unexpected places like his

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backpack or locker, or to “write a poem and slip it under his
windshield wiper.” As if this wasn’t enough to give his attraction the
kiss of death . . . Wait, it gets better. In addition, they advised
catching him off guard by “having a pizza delivered.” Okay. Put it all
together and what do you get? A magic recipe for convincing him
you are a 
stalker.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #5