H E R O I S M VALIDATES T H E H U M A N C O N N E C T I O N
For reasons we do not yet fully understand, thousands of ordinary people in every
country around the world, when they are placed in special circumstances, make
the decision to act heroically. On the face of it, the perspective we take here seems
to deflate the myth of the hero and to make something special into something
banal. This is not so, however, because our position still recognizes that the act of
heroism is indeed special and rare. Heroism supports the ideals of a community
and serves as an extraordinary guide, and it provides an exemplary role model for
prosocial behavior. The banality of heroism means that we are all heroes in wait-
ing. It is a choice that we may all be called upon to make at some point in time. I
believe that by making heroism an egalitarian attribute of human nature rather
than a rare feature of the elect few, we can better foster heroic acts in every com-
munity. According to journalist Carol Depino "Everyone has the capability of be-
coming a hero in one degree or another. Sometimes you might not realize it. To
someone it could be as small as holding a door open and saying 'hello' to them.
We are all heroes to s o m e o n e . "
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This new theme of the universality of ordinary heroes encourages us to re-
think about the common heroes among us, those whose daily sacrifices enrich
our lives. Daniel Boorstin's earlier noted cynical view of media-crafted celebrities
as heroes gives way before his deep appreciation of the everyday unsung heroes
living and working among us:
In this life of illusion and quasi-illusion, the person with solid virtues who
can be admired for something more substantial than his well-knownness
often proves to be the unsung hero: the teacher, the nurse, the mother, the
honest cop, the hard worker at lonely, under-paid, unglamorous, unpubli-
cized jobs. Topsy-turvily, these can remain heroes precisely because they
remain unsung.
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And so, the parting message that we might derive from our long journey into
the heart of darkness and back again is that heroic acts and the people who en-
gage in them should be celebrated. They form essential links among us; they forge
our Human Connection. The evil that persists in our midst must be countered,
and eventually overcome, by the greater good in the collective hearts and per-
sonal heroic resolve of Everyman and Everywoman. It is not an abstract concept,
but, as we are reminded by the Russian poet and former prisoner in Stalin's Gulag
Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn: "The line between good and evil is in the center of every
human h e a r t . "
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Thanks for sharing this journey with me.
Ciao, Phil Zimbardo
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