Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance



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Angela Duckworth - GRIT The Power of Passion and Perseverance (2016, Penguin) - libgen.li

Il Viaggio Di Vetri
. It runs to two pages with the names of
people who made his journey possible, including this note: “Mom and Dad, you’ve always let me
find my own way and helped guide me through it. You’ll never know how much I appreciate it. I’ll
always need you.”
Is it “a drag” that passions don’t come to us all at once, as epiphanies, without the need to actively
develop them? Maybe. But the reality is that our early interests are fragile, vaguely defined, and in
need of energetic, years-long cultivation and refinement.


Sometimes, when I talk to anxious parents, I get the impression they’ve misunderstood what I mean by
grit. I tell them that half of grit is perseverance—in response, I get appreciative head nods—but I 
also
tell them that nobody works doggedly on something they don’t find intrinsically interesting. Here,
heads often stop nodding and, instead, cock to the side.
“Just because you love something doesn’t mean you’ll be great,” says self-proclaimed Tiger Mom
Amy Chua. “Not if you don’t work. Most people stink at the things they love.” I couldn’t agree more.
Even in the development of your interests, there is work—practicing, studying, learning—to be done.
Still, my point is that most people stink even 
more
at what they 
don’t
love.
So, parents, parents-to-be, and non-parents of all ages, I have a message for you: 
Before hard
work comes play.
Before those who’ve yet to fix on a passion are ready to spend hours a day
diligently honing skills, they must goof around, triggering and retriggering interest. Of course,
developing an interest requires time and energy, and yes, some discipline and sacrifice. But at this
earliest stage, novices 
aren’t
obsessed with getting better. They’re 
not
thinking years and years into
the future. They 
don’t
know what their top-level, life-orienting goal will be. More than anything else,
they’re having fun.
In other words, even the most accomplished of experts start out as unserious beginners.
This is also the conclusion of psychologist Benjamin Bloom, who interviewed 120 people who
achieved world-class skills in sports, arts, or science—plus their parents, coaches, and teachers.
Among Bloom’s important findings is that the development of skill progresses through three different
stages, each lasting several years. Interests are discovered and developed in what Bloom called “the
early years.”
Encouragement during the early years is crucial because beginners are still figuring out whether
they want to commit or cut bait. Accordingly, Bloom and his research team found that the best mentors
at this stage were especially warm and supportive: “Perhaps the major quality of these teachers was
that they made the initial learning very pleasant and rewarding. Much of the introduction to the field
was as playful activity, and the learning at the beginning of this stage was much like a game.”
A degree of autonomy during the early years is also important. Longitudinal studies tracking
learners confirm that overbearing parents and teachers erode intrinsic motivation. Kids whose parents
let them make their own choices about what they like are more likely to develop interests later
identified as a passion. So, while my dad in Shanghai in 1950 didn’t think twice about his father
assigning him a career path, most young people today would find it difficult to fully “own” interests
decided without their input.
Sports psychologist Jean Côté finds that shortcutting this stage of relaxed, playful interest,
discovery, and development has dire consequences. In his research, professional athletes like Rowdy
Gaines who, as children, sampled a variety of different sports before committing to one, generally
fare much better in the long run. This early breadth of experience helps the young athlete figure out
which sport fits better than others. Sampling also provides an opportunity to “cross-train” muscles
and skills that will eventually complement more focused training. While athletes who skip this stage
often enjoy an early advantage in competition against less specialized peers, Côté finds that they’re
more likely to become injured physically and to burn out.
We’ll discuss what Bloom calls “the middle years” in the next chapter, on practice. Finally, we’ll
plumb “the later years” in chapter 8 when we discuss purpose.
For now, what I hope to convey is that experts and beginners have different motivational needs. At
the start of an endeavor, we need encouragement and freedom to figure out what we enjoy. We need
small wins. We need applause. Yes, we can handle a tincture of criticism and corrective feedback.


Yes, we need to practice. But not too much and not too soon. Rush a beginner and you’ll bludgeon
their budding interest. It’s very, very hard to get that back once you do.
Let’s return to our commencement speakers. They’re case studies in passion, so there’s something to
be learned from how they spent their early years.

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