potential emergency.
Think back to the story about my father that I told at the start of the book.
He made a small decision that had a lasting, positive impact on his life.
But he could
have chosen a different path, which might have led to his
death.
My point? If you live an unbalanced life, focusing only on work projects
and ignoring everything else, you could be missing a major warning sign
of a potential catastrophe.
We all have those moments that require us to immediately drop what
we’re doing and take care of an unexpected priority.
This can include a
death in the family, a sick child, or your furnace breaking in the middle of
winter.
These scenarios can’t wait until your next open block of time. Instead,
you often need to cancel everything on your calendar and take care of
these issues immediately.
On the other hand, there are scenarios that start out as small things, but
could transform into catastrophic events for you or your family. These
can be issues like experiencing chest pain,
receiving a letter from the
government, getting a phone call from your child’s teacher, or hearing
from a depressed friend in the middle of the night.
At first, none of these scenarios might seem like an emergency. So, it’s
easy to let them slip through cracks—especially if you’re a busy person.
They don’t come with a warning sign like the other emergencies in life.
But if you’re someone who already procrastinates, then you run the risk
of allowing these issues to snowball into a catastrophic event.
As we’ve discussed, ignoring potential
emergencies can lead to death,
divorce, suicide, financial ruin, and other horrible situations. No matter
how busy you might be, it’s always important to immediately address any
situation that
could be
an emergency.
This can be done by asking yourself a few questions:
What is the worst-case scenario if I ignore this issue?
How would this potential emergency
negatively affect my friends
and family?
What are the not-so-important tasks or obligations that I can put
off to take care of this potential emergency?
What simple actions can I take
today
to resolve this issue?
If it’s not a life-threatening issue and I don’t have time to address it
today, when is the soonest I can deal with it?
In the book
The Top Five Regrets of the Dying
, Bronnie Ware shared her
experiences as a palliative care nurse who worked with people in the last
few weeks of their lives. Her patients frequently spoke of the things they
wished they had done differently. The one regret that sticks out to me is
the wish that they hadn’t worked so hard during their life.
I feel this is an important lesson, because it’s easy to get wrapped up in
the daily grind and ignore the issues that don’t seem important but can
turn into true emergencies if left ignored. Sure, you might not “have time”
to take care of the unexpected. But it’s also a matter of priorities. No job,
task, meeting, or appointment is worth putting something off that could
derail your life or the lives of your loved ones.
My suggestion is whenever something comes up, stop what you’re doing
and take care of it right away.
Have that candid conversation with your spouse.
Make an appointment with a doctor if something doesn’t feel right.
Call back your friend who sounds depressed.
Open that scary letter from the government and immediately address it.
Sure, none of these
scenarios might be convenient, but I guarantee that
taking care of them immediately will prevent scarier issues down the
road.
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