look like academically after years of thriving in an emotionally stable
environment? The child flourishes in this fantasy.
At the very least, couples (struggling or not) can seek out Gottman’s
research-based marriage intervention. They
are readily available to
individuals.
Free family counseling and child care
Historically, people have done their best work—sometimes world-
changing work—in their first few years after joining the workforce. In the
field of economics, most Nobel Prize–winning research is done in the first
10 years of the recipient’s career. Albert Einstein published most of his
creative ideas at the ripe old age of 26. It’s no wonder that companies want
to recruit young intellectual talent.
The problem in today’s economy is that people typically are starting a
family at the very time they are also supposed to be doing their best work.
They are trying to be productive at some of the most stressful times of their
lives. What if companies took this unhappy collision of life events
seriously? They could offer Gottman’s intervention
as a benefit for every
newly married, or newly pregnant, employee. It might reverse the negative
flow of family stress that normally enters the workplace at this time in a
person’s life, enhance productivity, and perhaps even generate grateful,
loyal employees.
Businesses also risk losing their best and brightest at this time, a
decision especially hard on women. What if talented people didn’t have to
choose between career and family? Businesses could offer on-site child care
and flexible work schedules simply to retain
employees at the very time
they are most likely to be valuable. As this affects women the most,
businesses immediately would achieve more gender balance. My guess is
that such an offering would so affect productivity that the costs of providing
child care are offset by the gains. Not only might businesses create more
stable employees in the current generation,
they might be raising far
healthier children for work in the next.
Power to the people
Plenty of books discuss how to manage stress, and the good ones all say
the key is to get control back into your life. For individuals, that may mean
leaving a stressful job or an abusive relationship.
Companies could detect work-related problems by developing a
questionnaire based on Jeansok Kim and David Diamond’s three-pronged
definition of stress, to assess whether an employee feels powerless. The
next step would be to change the situation.
It’s no coincidence
that stress researchers, education scientists, and
business professionals come to similar conclusions about the effects of toxic
stress on people. We have known most of the salient points since Marty
Seligman stopped shocking those dogs in the mid-1970s. It is time we made
productive use of that horrible line of research.
Exercise
Even if you’re not experiencing the kind of out-of-control stress we’ve
been discussing, you can minimize the stress in your daily life.
Aerobic
exercise, several times a week for 30 minutes each, is an excellent way to
shore up your BDNF peacekeeping forces.
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