All praise is due only to Allaah. We laud Him and beseech His

Hadhrat Mirza Mazhar Jaane Jaan’s (rahmatullah alayh) 
delicate disposition
When we hear the name of Hadhrat Mirza Jaane Jaan 
(rahmatullah alayh) then we immediately think about his 
extremely delicate nature. He was a great wali of Allaah Ta`ala. 
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He had such a nature that if anything was not in place or placed 
crooked, he would get a severe headache. If, for example, the 
stitches on his bed sheet were out of line, then he would get a 
headache. However, Allaah Ta`ala had decreed that he get such 
a wife who was extremely ill-tempered. She would constantly 
scream and pull tantrums. This was Allaah Ta'ala’s way of 
testing his buzrugs. Notwithstanding this, Hadhrat Jaane Jaan 
remained with this wife throughout his life. He would always 
comment that Allaah Ta`ala is washing his sins through this 
avenue. 
The women in our society are the 
hoors 
 of this world
Hadhrat Moulana Ashraf Ali Thaanwi (rahmatullah alayh) used 
to say that the Indian (and Pakistani) women were the 
hoors
of 
this world, with regard to their faithfulness and loyalty. Sadly 
nowadays due to the western culture which is seeping through 
into our societies, this quality is fats leaving our women. Allaah 
Ta`ala had placed such loyalty in our women that they would 
sacrifice their souls for their husbands, and they would not 
glance at men other than their husbands. 
It is wholly uncouth and uncivilised to hit the wife
Once when Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) was delivering a 
sermon he spoke of various things and broached various topics. 
Amongst the things he said was, 
“It is and evil habit that you 
people hit your wives like how you hit your slaves, when she is 
the one who fulfils your desires and satisfies you.”
Hitting the 
wife is very uncouth and uncivilised.