Why Men Love Bitches

If you tell him you are not interested
in jumping into a relationship with both feet,
he will set out to try to change your mind.
The way to quell his fears is to say you aren’t interested in
anything “too serious.” As long as you appear interested in him, he’ll
keep coming your way. In his mind, you’ll always be able to be
convinced otherwise because men are so conditioned to meeting
women who want commitment. By not appearing to want
commitment, you throw a monkey wrench in the lockdown
program. He no longer knows what to expect.
This is how you get in the conductor’s seat of the train, and this is
when he wants to stay on board. When he’s driving, there is no
“thrill” and no “chase.” But when you’re driving, suddenly it’s a fun
ride because he can’t anticipate what will happen next. (I submit to
you, my fellow sisters, it’s very selfish 
not
to indulge him in so much
fun.)
Things You Can Say to Avoid the Cage
When you go on a first date, tell him you “don’t want to be in a serious
relationship, for the time being.” (Of course, things may change.)
When you work together, say, “I don’t know if it’s a good idea for us to mix
business with pleasure.” (You need a little convincing.)
When it’s a long-distance relationship, say, “I’m not sure long-distance

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relationships can work.” (Tentative is good.)
The opposite is also true. If, for example, you 
don’t
like him and
wish he’d stop calling, try, “Babies? I love babies! I want at least a
half a dozen of them, maybe more. My clock is ticking so I’d like to
have them soon. 
Real soon.
Perhaps six of them in the next four
years . . .” Keep talking about those babies.
This is the perfect approach for that friendly guy you aren’t
interested in and you don’t want to hurt. It’s a perfect way to get rid
of him. “Diapers? It’s easy to get the hang of it. And, don’t worry .
. . you’ll get used to the smell of the poop! It won’t last too long,
just until they get potty trained . . . .” Just make sure you’re on the
ground floor when you tell him, so he doesn’t get hurt when he
jumps off the balcony. (Open windows and high altitudes should
also be avoided.)
If you don’t make him feel locked down, he’ll come your way.
Think of him as a frightened stray dog. Eventually, he’ll drop his
guard and come around. But if you charge at him or try to corner
him, he’ll bolt.
This also relates to why men prefer bitches. When he meets a
woman who is unavailable or a little bitchy, he has a built-in excuse
for why he isn’t going to get too close. “She’s a bitch, so I won’t
get too serious. I’ll just have a little fun,” he says to himself. Fun
equals freedom. That is, until he gets attached and then it’s
checkmate. Men don’t 
choose
to be in love. It happens by
accident. That’s why they coined the phrase 
to fall in love.
As in
“Oops!” 
He fell.
He had a plan . . . but it went terribly awry.
ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #18