Why Men Love Bitches

When a man falls in love, suddenly he’ll go
out of his way and think nothing of it.
He’ll do things for 
this
 woman he
wouldn’t have done for anyone else.
Much of the advice given in this book has been based on the
admissions men have made to me. At one point, I asked a doctor
named George why he won’t share this secret information with his
partner. He answered, “Because with you there is no consequence.
But with her there 
would
be a consequence.” The consequence

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George is speaking of is a loss of power for men. In other words,
the attraction a man has for a feisty or bitchy woman is rarely
something he’ll want her to know about.
I knew the information the men were giving up was not only
truthful but also very loaded, because there was such a “hush, hush”
quality to it. Men would regularly ask me not to use their names
because they said that other men would feel betrayed by what they
had disclosed.
Obviously, it’s helpful to know how men think. But the
information in this chapter isn’t intended to give you ways to work
even harder
to appease a man. The nice girl does that already, to a
fault. If there are two eggs in a frying pan, she’ll take the broken
yolk for herself. If she bakes two cookies and one breaks, she’ll
keep the broken one and give him the good cookie. The nice girl
has no idea why overcompensating backfires when it’s done day-in
and day-out. She doesn’t realize that she becomes so involved in
him that she loses herself, and in the process, she risks losing him as
well.
Refer to the Top Fifteen Lists in this chapter again and again, but
don’t take the information and work 
even harder
to please your
man. Instead of working so hard to please him, work harder to
please yourself . . . because ultimately, this is what will truly please
him.

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