W. A. Ward Dear English Teachers!

have to
go 
to vocational colleges or academic 
lyceums after finishing school.
10. You 
must
phone your parents 
every day, when you are abroad.
mustn’t and don’t have to
11. You 
mustn’t
accept things from 
strangers!
12. You 
mustn’t 
offend your friend or 
colleague.
13. Children 
don’t have to
think about 
their future profession seriously.

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Teacher’s book
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14. Children 
mustn’t
play computer 
games all day. 
15. We 
don’t have to
get up very 
early at the weekends.
 
pre-reading Time: 5 min.
aim:
preparing students for the topic. 
1.
Divide class into three groups. Tell them you are going to give them one 
quotation. Ask them to discuss the quotation in groups. Invite several students to 
share their opinions: 
“I don’t have time to hate people who hate me because 
I’m too busy loving people who love me.”
students' own answers.
While-reading Time: 15 min.
aim: 
reading for gist.
2. 
Ask students to read the text individually and choose a title with their partners.
A professor stood before his class 
with some things on the table in front 
of him. When the class began, silently 
he picked up a very large and empty 
mayonnaise jar and continued to fill it 
with small rocks.
then he asked the students if the 
jar was full. They agreed that it was.
so the professor then picked up a 
box of pebbles and poured them into 
the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The 
pebbles, of course, rolled into the 
open areas between the rocks.
he then asked the students again 
if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
the professor picked up a box of 
sand and poured it into the jar. Of 
course, the sand filled up everything 
else.
he then asked once more if the 
jar was full. The students answered
unanimously, “Yes.”
“now,” said the professor, “i want 
you to know that this jar represents 
your life. the rocks are the important 
things – your family, your partner, your 
health, your children.
the pebbles are the other things 
that matter – like your job, your house, 
your car.
The sand is everything else. The 
small stuff.”
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” 
he continued “there is no room for the 
pebbles or the rocks. the same goes 
for your life.
if you spend all your time and 
energy on the small stuff, you will 
never have room for the things that 
are important for you. Pay attention 
to the things that are critical for your 
happiness. Play with your children. 
take your partner out dancing. there 
will always be time to go to work, clean 
the house, give a dinner party.
Take care of the rocks first – the 
things that really matter. set your 
priorities. t
he rest is just sand.”