Female look
Even a few centuries ago, none of the fair sex would not argue: working in society is not for them. Here, domestic work, for the benefit of the family and children, raising children, maintaining the hearth, is "it." Though not included in the concept of work in its current reading. So, more fun. No wonder they say a woman "stays at home." Ha, would try men so "sit"! Not the fact that they would relax much, right?
Then, the work of women began to enter more and more into the natural order of things. Nowadays, a girl who does not plan to get a higher education is puzzling and even pity. Yes, marriage is good, but you never know how it all ends. Suddenly one will be left without livelihood. And what kind of work will you find without having a university behind you?
So the girls rush right after school to the institutes, then to the factory. This is me figuratively, of course. But the offices are still in a hurry. To be independent, to provide for their growing needs, to keep up with men. Do not depend on anyone. And in general, "realized." Ask your centenarian grandmother if she self-actualized? I am sure that they will look at you as if you are insane. What is it?
They noticed, probably, how differently can men and women do the same work! That is quite unlike! Where a man primarily includes brains, analyzes, calculates options, a woman will be guided by the heart. Even decisions are often made intuitively, under the influence of emotions or feelings. Although they are in most cases the most profitable. Say, mystic? By no means! So we, women, are arranged. And thank God!
I can not agree that for men work, in fact, in many cases, above all. They are attainers, they are results. It is important for them to be realized and in demand in society, to perform “feats” there. And yes, it is necessary for them to feel "at ease", and not to be sold into working slavery. Such work destroys them. Especially if the money is obtained only for the maintenance of the pants, and not the whole family.
For women, harmony is in the first place. In the soul and in the heart. They will tell you how to find an alternative solution, when both ours and yours. And you get such a wonderful mix of your beloved: work, family, hobby, and other things. Which always has a place in life. The place is important and inalienable. And then the woman is truly happy. At least, this approach is very responsive to me!
Dear friends, what do you think about work? What place does it take in your life? What does it mean to you? We will be very pleased if you share your thoughts on this issue in the comments. Let's be mutually generous!
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