The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Spouse
Sympathizer or scapegoat
Family
Refuge (emotional support) or scapegoat
Money
Means to fight with or prove superiority
Work
Escape or opportunity to vent feelings
Possessions
Fighting tools
Means to secure allies
Escape, refuge
Pleasure
Rest and relaxation time before the next battle

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A Friend or Friends
Emotional supporters and sympathizers
Possibly defined by common enemy
Enemy or Enemies
Objects of hate
Source of personal problems
Stimuli to self-protection and self-justification
Church
Source of self-justification
Self
Victimized
Immobilized by enemy
Principles
Justification for labeling enemies
Source of your enemy’s wrongness
If your center is: 
Church
These are alternative ways you may tend to perceive other areas of your life:
Spouse
A companion in or facilitator for church service, or a trial of faith
Family
Models to exemplify adherence to church teachings, or trials of faith
Money
Means to support church and family
Evil, if greater in priority than church service or teachings
Work
Necessary for temporal support
Possessions
Temporal possessions of minimal importance
Reputation and image of great worth
Pleasure
“Innocent” pleasures as an opportunity to gather with other church
members
Others as sinful or time wasters, to be self-righteously denied
A Friend or Friends

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Other members of the church
Enemy or Enemies
Nonbelievers; those who disagree with church teachings or whose lives
are in blatant opposition to them