for letting go of your past. No one’s suggesting you act irresponsibly and not
deal with the issue you’re facing at your firm.
But your past is a place to be
learned from, not a home to be lived in
.”
The three friends climbed into the waiting vehicle and it pushed ahead to
return to the estate of the eclectic host.
“So, let’s talk more about this learning model, because it is so crucial to
your
success and happiness,” the billionaire commented as the SUV sailed
along. “Many gurus speak of mindset. They teach the importance of installing
the psychology of possibility, to use Harvard psychologist Ellen Langer’s
phrase. They coach you to think optimistic thoughts every day. These teachers
tell you that your thinking forms your reality and that, by improving your
mind, you’ll improve your life. For sure, calibrating
your mindset is an
essential move to make toward the personal mastery that will then lead to a
legendary outer reality.
“Yet,” the billionaire continued, “and it’s
incredibly
important that you
two understand this because most people don’t: The Spellbinder taught me
that elevating your Mindset—the first of the four interior empires—is only
25% of the personal mastery equation.”
“Seriously?” the artist asked. “I always
thought that our thinking
determines everything. That there wasn’t much more to it than that. The
whole ‘change your thinking and you’ll change your life’ and your ‘attitude
determines your altitude’ kind of thing.”
“Look,” said the billionaire. “It’s definitely true that your deepest beliefs
drive your daily behavior. You know I believe that. And you know I also
agree that the way you perceive the world drives the way you perform in it.
Yet, a superbly developed Mindset without a magnificently purified Heartset
is a hollow triumph. Just working on your Mindset will never deliver the
fullness of your sovereignty and fully express your resident genius,” the
industrialist said with great clarity.
“I think I’m getting you,” noted the artist with
a grin the size of Mount
Kilimanjaro. “Charles Bukowski said, ‘Stop insisting on clearing your
head . . . Clear your heart instead.’”
“He was right,” agreed the billionaire as he relaxed deeper into his rich
leather seat in the SUV.
“So, help me understand exactly what ‘Heartset’ is?”
asked the
entrepreneur. She was watching a group of school kids running in a
playground with unsparing exhilaration. Her thoughts drifted to her
childhood.
“Heartset is your emotional life. Even with battleproofed beliefs and the
distinguished thinking of a world-class Mindset, you won’t win if your heart
is full of anger, sadness, disappointment, resentment and fear. Just think about
it: How can you produce amazing work and realize astonishing results if toxic
feelings are weighing you down? It seems like everyone’s talking about
building a healthy and undefeatable Mindset these days.
You hear it
everywhere. But no one’s speaking of Heartset—or Healthset and Soulset.
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