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P Problems are PC Opportunities



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P Problems are PC Opportunities
 
This experience also taught me another powerful paradigm of interdependence. It deals 
with the way in which we see problems. I had lived for months trying to avoid the 
problem, seeing it as a source of irritation, a stumbling block, and wishing it would 
somehow go away. But, as it turned out, the very problem created the opportunity to 
build a deep relationship that empowered us to work together as a strong 
complementary team.
I suggest that in an interdependent situation, every P problem is a PC opportunity -- a 
chance to build the Emotional Bank Accounts that significantly affect interdependent 
production.
When parents see their children's problems as opportunities to build the relationship 
instead of as negative, burdensome irritations, it totally changes the nature of parent-
child interaction. Parents become more willing, even excited, about deeply understanding 
and helping their children. When a child comes to them with a problem, instead of 
thinking, "Oh, no! Not another problem!" their paradigm is, "Here is a great opportunity 
for me to really help my child and to invest in our relationship." Many interactions 
change from transactional to transformational, and strong bonds of love and trust are 
created as children sense the value parents give to their problems and to them as 
individuals.
This paradigm is powerful in business as well. One department store chain that operates 
from this paradigm has created a great loyalty among its customers. Any time a customer 
comes into the store with a problem, not matter how small, the clerks immediately see it 
as an opportunity to build the relationship with the customer. They respond with a 
cheerful, positive desire to solve the problem in a way that will make the customer 
happy. They treat the customer with such grace and respect, giving such second-mile 
service, that many of the customers don't even think of going anywhere else.
By recognizing that the P/PC Balance is necessary to effectiveness in an interdependent 
reality, we can value our problems as opportunities to increase PC.

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