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The 7 habits of highly effective people restoring the character

Synergistic Communication
When you communicate synergistically, you are simply opening your mind and heart 
and expressions to new possibilities, new alternatives, new options. It may seem as if you 
are casting aside Habit 2 (to Begin with the End in Mind); but, in fact, you're doing the 
opposite -- you're fulfilling it.
You're not sure when you engage in synergistic communication how things will work out 
or what the end will look like, but you do have an inward sense of excitement and 
security and adventure, believing that it will be significantly better than it was before. 
And that is the end that you have in mind.
You begin with the belief that parties involved will gain more insight, and that the 
excitement of that mutual learning and insight will create a momentum toward more and 
more insights, learning, and growth.
Many people have not really experienced even a moderate degree of synergy in their 
family life or in other interactions. They've been trained and scripted into defensive and 
protective communications or into believing that life or other people can't be trusted. As a 
result, they are never really open to Habit 6 and to these principles.
This represents one of the great tragedies and wastes in life, because so much potential 
remains untapped -- completely undeveloped and unused. Ineffective people live day 
after day with unused potential. They experience synergy only in small, peripheral ways 
in their lives.
They may have memories of some unusual creative experiences, perhaps in athletics, 
where they were involved in a real team spirit for a period of time. Or perhaps they were 
in an emergency situation where people cooperated to an unusually high degree and 
submerged ego and pride in an effort to save someone's life or to produce a solution to a 
crisis.
To many, such events may seem unusual, almost out of character with life, even 
miraculous. But this is not so. These things can be produced regularly, consistently, 
almost daily in people's lives. But it requires enormous personal security and openness 
and a spirit of adventure.
Almost all creative endeavors are somewhat unpredictable. They often seem ambiguous,
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hit-or-miss, trial and error. And unless people have a high tolerance for ambiguity and 
get their security from integrity to principles and inner values they find it unnerving and 
unpleasant to be involved in highly creative enterprises. Their need for structure, 
certainty, and predictability is too high.

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