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Any person having decided to start his/her road to success is just obliged to turn into a
leader for him/herself in the beginning of this road.
Without this, any of his/her undertakings will fail.
If a person is unable of motivating oneself, cannot set tasks for oneself and start
undertaking some actions to fulfill them, how will this person demand it from other people?
YOU CANNOT GIVE WHAT YOU HAVE NOT.
BUT YOU CAN DEVELOP IN YOU ANY QUALITY IF YOU REALLY WANT IT.
ONE IS NOT BORN A LEADER, ONE BECOMES IT!
Take any successful person of modern time and analyze WHAT A LEADER IS. And you
will see three regularities.
Firstly, any leader started small, in a small way.
Secondly, having learnt to be a leader for oneself, the person got an opportunity to become
a leader for other people.
Thirdly, the road of any leader was a gradual one – step by step, inch by inch. Leadership
is not a subject that can be learnt by reading a book or by having attended a training course. Even
if you know all about leadership, the qualities inherent to it, you will only make the first step.
The only way of turning a person into a leader is not in absorbing books on this topic, but
in learning to be oneself, in starting acting by using all one’s skills, proficiencies, abilities,
energy given to you by nature and those that you’ve yourself managed to develop.
One point which was established by psychologists after long research showed that any
group of people thrown to uninhabited island, or to fight wild animals, or simply for a game
pitch finds and chooses itself a leader whom each group-member will obey, esteem, support, and
do the tasks set by him/her. And the choice of leader does not depend on intelligence level or age
of the team participants.
For being a leader it is not enough just having a wish: a person displaying such a desire
must also have a few more characteristic traits which only a real leader can possess. Otherwise
such a person will fail, for it difficult to be a leader. In business practices after all this time, the
research and history has shown that any person may become a leader. But even here simply
having a desire was not enough, for there was also needed the desire to learn and develop within
oneself the abilities assisting in leadership. This dwsire should be rounded on a strong wish and
hunger for success.
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