See also
Freecycle
Bellé, Nicola, 167
Bennett, Byron, 79
Berg, Justin, 263
Bergeron, Diane, 187
Biden, Joe, 128
Birth order, and perspective taking, 90–91n
Blogger, 42
Bloom, Benjamin, 104–7
Bloomers, and self-fulfilling prophecy, 99–102
Bluford, Guion, Jr., 158
BNI, 60, 267
Body language, of takers, 130
Bohns, Vanessa, 241
Bondy, Filip, 118
Borowitz, Andy, 93
Bowie, Sam, 109, 111, 115, 115n, 120, 125
Bowler, Matthew, 177
Bowles, Hannah Riley, 208
Branson, Richard, 184–85
Breslin, Jimmy, 73–74
Brewer, Marilynn, 232–33
Brooks, Arthur, 182
Brooks, James L., 63
Brown, Kwame, 123–24
Buckwalter, Bucky, 121–22
Burg, Bob, 267
Burger, Jerry, 232
Burn-out, 165–73, 177–85
avoiding by giving more, 165–66, 168–71, 173
and fight or flight, 177
of givers, myth of, 165, 178–85
having impact as antidote, 161–69
social support, benefits for, 177–78
Teach for America (TFA) teachers, 160–61, 165
Burton, Robert, 87–88
Bush, George H. W., and Ken Lay, 29, 34, 45
Bush, George W., and Ken Lay, 28, 29, 34, 44–45
C
Cain, Susan, 131, 265
Callahan, Conrey
burn-out situation for, 160–62, 176–77
as chunker, 171, 174
giving more as energy source, 165–66, 168–71, 174–78
Caring Canadian Award, 156–58
Carter, Jimmy, 184
Cattell, Raymond, 104
Cerne, Matej, 78–79
Chamberlain, Wilt, 159
Chandler, Tyson, 123
Chast, Roz, 93
Chatterjee, Arijit, 35–37
Cheng, Joey, 34
Chief executive officers (CEOs), takers, traits of, 34–38
Christakis, Nicholas, 56–57
Chunking, giver satisfaction from, 170–75
Cialdini, Robert, 43, 220–22, 235–38
Clark, Margaret, 5
Classroom Economy, The, 175
Clinton, Bill, 10
Clinton, DeWitt, 14
Coach, basketball talent, recognizing, 108–11, 115–22, 124–25
Coffey, Frank, 118–19
Collaboration, 66–93
and creative character, 63–72
and crediting others, 77–93
financial analysts, team and performance, 71–72
and givers, 66–67, 72–78
idiosyncrasy credits from, 76
and matchers, 76, 78–79
and perspective taking, 86–93
and powerless speech, 147–48
and responsibility bias, 81–86
surgeons, affiliation and performance, 70
and takers, 69–70
team, benefits from givers, 74–76
Collins, Catherine, 76
Colosi, Chris, 264
Communication styles
first-person singular pronouns in, 36, 193
powerful and powerless communication, 130–54
Community
elevation and giving, 234–39
sense of and giving, 224–28, 233–34
Computer industry, takers and company performance, 36n
Conley, Chip, 16
Conservation International, 66
Consultants
as givers, 186–215
Coyle, Daniel, 104
Craigslist
development of, 216–17
versus Freecycle, 217–220, 226–28
Creativity
architect traits, study of, 64–65, 68
and collaboration, 63–72
and givers, 65–67
and takers, 65, 67–69
Crediting others, 77–93
by givers, 77–78, 83–86
lack of by takers, 79–81
perspective taking, 86–93
and responsibility bias, 81–86
Crosier, Benjamin, 38
Cross, Rob, 52–53
Crutchfield, Richard, 242
Culture
and important values, 20–21
and reciprocity patterns, 5–6n
D
Darwin, Charles, 239
De Dreu, Carsten, 213
Def Jam Records, 119–20
Dell, Michael, 41
Dichter, Sasha, 267
Dillon, Haley, 38
Dingman, Thomas, 245–46
Disagreeable persons
givers versus takers, 191–93
traits related to, 191
Disclaimers, in powerless speech, 144
Dominance
and powerful communication, 130, 133, 148
and takers, 130, 133
Dormant ties, 50–54
and givers, 51–53
reactivating, impact of, 50–51
and trust, 51
Dovidio, Jack, 226
Drexler, Clyde, 120–22, 124
Drucker, Peter, 70
Drummond, Jon, 158
Duckworth, Angela, 105–6
Duin, Steve, 116–17
Dunn, Elizabeth, 183
Dutton, Jane, 248, 262
E
Eagly, Alice, 203n
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