Person’s character

Person’s character

I once conducted a job interview with someone I found to be passionate, energetic, intelligent, engaging, and prepared. As I asked her questions designed to produce an accurate picture of her potential future performance, I remained attuned to my emotional reactions to her demeanor, trying to hear what my inner voice was telling me about her. At the end of the interview, I found myself excited about the prospect of her coming to work for me. I had to remind myself to remain cautious, however, as I reflected on just how easy it is to confuse personality with character and how critical it is to separate them.

Personality is easy to read, and we're all experts at it. We judge people funny, extroverted, energetic, optimistic, confident—as well as overly serious, lazy, negative, and shy—if not upon first meeting them, then shortly thereafter. And though we may need more than one interaction to confirm the presence of these sorts of traits, by the time we decide they are, in fact, present we've usually amassed enough data to justify our conclusions.

Character, on the other hand, takes far longer to puzzle out. It includes traits that reveal themselves only in specific—and often uncommon—circumstances, traits like honesty, virtue, and kindliness. Ironically, research has shown that personality traits are determined largely by heredity and are mostly immutable. The arguably more important traits of character, on the other hand, are more malleable—though, we should note, not without great effort. Character traits, as opposed to personality traits, are based on beliefs (e.g., that honesty and treating others well is important—or not), and though beliefs can be changed, it's far harder than most realize.

Odamning fe'l-atvori

Men bir marta ishtiyoqli, g'ayratli, aqlli, ishqiboz va tayyor bo'lgan odam bilan ish yuzasidan suhbat o'tkazdim. Men uning bo'lajak ijrosi haqida aniq tasavvurga ega bo'lishga qaratilgan savollarni berar ekanman, ichki ovozim u haqida nimani aytayotganini eshitishga harakat qilib, uning fe'l-atvoriga bo'lgan hissiy reaktsiyalarimga quloq tutdim. Suhbat oxirida uning men uchun ishlashiga umid qilayotganidan hayajonlandim. O'zimni ehtiyotkor bo'lishim kerakligini eslatishim kerak edi, ammo men shaxsiyatni fe'l-atvor bilan chalkashtirib yuborish qanchalik oson ekanligi va ularni ajratish qanchalik muhim ekanligi haqida mulohaza yuritdim.

Shaxsiyatni o'qish oson va biz hammamiz bu haqda mutaxassismiz. Biz odamlarni kulgili, isrofgar, g'ayratli, nekbin, shuningdek haddan tashqari jiddiy, dangasa, salbiy va uyatchan deb baholaymiz - agar ular birinchi marta uchrashmagan bo'lsa, keyin ko'p o'tmay. Va ushbu belgilarning mavjudligini tasdiqlash uchun bir nechta aralashuv kerak bo'lishi mumkin bo'lsa-da, ular qaror qilgan vaqtga kelib biz xulosalarimizni tasdiqlash uchun odatda etarli ma'lumot to'plashdi.

Boshqa tomondan, belgi jumboqni aniqlash uchun ko'proq vaqt talab etadi. Bu o'ziga xos xususiyatlarni va ko'pincha kam uchraydigan vaziyatlarni, halollik, fazilat va mehribonlik kabi fazilatlarni o'z ichiga oladi. Afsuski, tadqiqotlar shuni ko'rsatdiki, shaxsiy xususiyatlar asosan irsiyatga bog'liq va asosan o'zgarmasdir. Boshqa tomondan, xarakterning muhim jihatlari ko'proq moyil bo'ladi, ammo biz shuni ta'kidlashimiz kerakki, ko'p harakat qilmasdan. Xarakter belgilari, shaxsiy xususiyatlardan farqli o'laroq, e'tiqodga asoslanadi (masalan, halollik va boshqalarga yaxshi munosabat qilish muhimmi yoki yo'qmi), va e'tiqodni o'zgartirish mumkin bo'lsa-da, bu ko'pchilik tushunganidan ko'ra qiyinroq.

Questions

1.What is an external appearance?

2. What does a person look like?

3.What types of personality traits are manifested?

4.How to determine a person’s character?

5.What role a person’s appearance plays?

Dictionaries

1. murder- qotillik

2. potion- dorivor

3. predict – bashorat qilmoq

4. rival - raqib

5. cause- sabab

6. servants – xizmatkor

7. nature- tabiat

8. death- o’lim

9. falling- yiqilish

10. sleeping-draught – uyqu dori

11. penniles - bechorahol

12. princess- malika

13. shadows - soyalari

14. withdrawn - tutashgan

15. drunk - mast

16. blame - gunoh

17. thereby – shunday qilib

18. drinking – ichimlik

19. draft – qoralama

20. daughter- qiz

Referances

1.www.arxiv.uz

2.www.aim.uz

3.www.vikipediya.uz

4.Round up books

5.www.yandex.uz

6.www.baza.referat.uz

7.www.kun.uz