how much better it is to be conscious of having gained so great a
victory.”
Despite the fact that it’s a common theme, I have to disagree with
Musashi and the others when it comes to this precept, “Do not seek
pleasure for its own sake” and the negativity toward pleasure in
general. However, this is predicated upon a person’s ability to
condition their mind as to what pain and pleasure are linked to. This
is due to the fact that what drives our behavior is instinctive reaction
to
pain and pleasure, not intellectual calculation.
Maybe it’s because I’ve listened for years to Anthony Robbins
saying, “What you link pain to and what you link pleasure to shapes
your destiny.” But the bottom line is I think Tony is right, and that pain
and pleasure are the driving forces in our lives. We do things out of
our need to avoid pain or our desire to gain pleasure. I also think
Tony is right when he says, “The secret of success is learning how to
use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you.
If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls
you.”
This isn’t necessarily a new concept either, because there is a quote
attributed to Aristotle (384 – 322 BC) that states, “The
aim of the
wise is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain.” The two have been
linked for centuries, and I prefer to link pain and pleasure to the
appropriate things in order to be led by the carrot rather than pushed
by the stick. I believe it is perfectly acceptable, and actually
preferable, to seek pleasure if you have
aligned pleasure with the
right activities and outcomes.
It’s the alignment then that causes a problem, because whose
morals determine which are the right activities and outcomes that we
should seek as pleasurable? Would we then succumb to a
hedonistic society that Musashi’s precept seeks to steer us clear of?
I don’t know.
I’m not an advocate of wanton hedonism, but neither do I advocate
following Musashi’s second precept on its face value. We can direct
our own associations to pain and pleasure
and use this force to
change our behaviors and accomplish great results. We can learn to
condition our minds to link pain and pleasure to whatever we
choose. We must then just ensure that what we choose is correct.
And I’ll let you ponder upon and choose just what that is.
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