Ichiro Kishimi



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The courage to be disliked






Ichiro Kishimi
was born in Kyoto, where he still lives, in 1956. He has
aspired to become a philosopher since his days in high school. Since 1989,
while specialising in Classical Western philosophy with a focus on Platonic
philosophy, he has researched Adlerian psychology; he writes and lectures
on the subject and provides counselling for youths in psychiatric clinics as a
certified counsellor and consultant for the Japanese Society of Adlerian
Psychology. He is the translator, into Japanese, of selected writings by
Alfred Adler—
Kojin Shinrigaku Kogi
(The Science of Living) and 
Hito wa
Naze Shinkeisho ni Naru no ka
(Problems of Neurosis)—and he is the
author of 
Adora Shinrigaku Nyumon
(Introduction to Adlerian Psychology),
in addition to numerous other books.
Fumitake Koga
, an award-winning professional writer and author, was
born in 1973. He has released numerous bestselling works of business-
related and general non-fiction. He encountered Adlerian psychology in his
late twenties and was deeply affected by its conventional wisdom defying
ideas. Thereafter, Koga made numerous visits to Ichiro Kishimi in Kyoto,
gleaned from him the essence of Adlerian psychology and took down the
notes for the classical ‘dialogue format’ method of Greek philosophy that is
used in this book.



First published in Japan as 
Kirawareru Yuki
by Diamond Inc., Tokyo, in 2013
First published in Australia and New Zealand by Allen & Unwin in 2017
First published in Great Britain by Allen & Unwin in 2018
This English edition published by arrangement with Diamond Inc. in care of Tuttle-Mori Agency
Inc., Tokyo, through Chandler Crawford Agency, Massachusetts, USA.
Copyright © Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga 2013
Copyright © Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga in this translated edition 2017
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any
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Hardback ISBN 978 1 76063 072 0
Ebook ISBN 978 1 76063 826 9
Internal design by Bookhouse
Set by Bookhouse, Sydney


AUTHORS’ NOTE
Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung and Alfred Adler are all giants in the world of
psychology. This book is a distillation of Adler’s philosophical and
psychological ideas and teachings, taking the form of a narrative dialogue
between a philosopher and a young man.
Adlerian psychology enjoys a broad base of support in Europe and the
USA, and presents simple and straightforward answers to the philosophical
question: how can one be happy? Adlerian psychology might hold the key.
Reading this book could change your life. Now, let us accompany the
young man and venture beyond the ‘door’.


CONTENTS
Introduction
THE FIRST NIGHT
Deny trauma
The unknown ‘third giant’
Why people can change
Trauma does not exist
People fabricate anger
How to live without being controlled by the past
Socrates and Adler
Are you okay just as you are?
Unhappiness is something you choose for yourself
People always choose not to change
Your life is decided here and now
THE SECOND NIGHT
All problems are interpersonal relationship problems
Why you dislike yourself
All problems are interpersonal relationship problems
Feelings of inferiority are subjective assumptions
An inferiority complex is an excuse
Braggarts have feelings of inferiority


Life is not a competition
You’re the only one worrying about your appearance
From power struggle to revenge
Admitting fault is not defeat
Overcoming the tasks that face you in life
Red string and rigid chains
Don’t fall for the ‘life-lie’
From the psychology of possession to the psychology of practice
THE THIRD NIGHT
Discard other people’s tasks
Deny the desire for recognition
Do not live to satisfy the expectations of others
How to separate tasks
Discard other people’s tasks
How to rid yourself of interpersonal relationship problems
Cut the Gordian knot
Desire for recognition makes you unfree
What real freedom is
You hold the cards to interpersonal relationships
THE FOURTH NIGHT
Where the centre of the world is
Individual psychology and holism
The goal of interpersonal relationships is a feeling of community
Why am I only interested in myself ?
You are not the centre of the world
Listen to the voice of a larger community
Do not rebuke or praise
The encouragement approach
How to feel you have value


Exist in the present
People cannot make proper use of self
THE FIFTH NIGHT
To live in earnest in the here and now
Excessive self-consciousness stifles the self
Not self-affirmation—self-acceptance
The difference between trust and confidence
The essence of work is a contribution to the common good
Young people walk ahead of adults
Workaholism is a life-lie
You can be happy now
Two paths travelled by those wanting to be ‘special beings’
The courage to be normal
Life is a series of moments
Live like you’re dancing
Shine a light on the here and now
The greatest life-lie
Give meaning to seemingly meaningless life
Afterword



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