take joy in eating made Lisa feel relaxed with him for the first time. Erin recalled a similar
experience: “Dad knew where he wanted to go to lunch every day. He told me he knew an
incredible soba shop, and he took me there, and it was so good that it’s been hard to ever eat soba
again because nothing comes close.” They also found a tiny neighborhood sushi restaurant, and
Jobs tagged it on his iPhone as “best sushi I’ve ever had.” Erin agreed.
They also visited Kyoto’s famous Zen Buddhist temples; the one Erin loved most was Saih
ō
-ji,
known as the “moss temple” because of its Golden Pond surrounded by gardens featuring more
than a hundred varieties of moss. “Erin
was really really happy, which was deeply gratifying and
helped improve her relationship with her father,” Powell recalled. “She deserved that.”
Their younger daughter, Eve, was quite a different story. She was spunky, self-assured, and in
no way intimidated by her father. Her passion was horseback riding, and she became determined
to make it to the Olympics. When a coach told her how much work it would require, she replied,
“Tell me exactly what I need to do. I will do it.” He did, and she began diligently following the
program.
Eve was an expert at the difficult task of pinning her father down; she often called his assistant
at work directly to make sure something got put on his calendar. She was also pretty good as a
negotiator. One weekend in 2010, when
the family was planning a trip, Erin wanted to delay the
departure by half a day, but she was afraid to ask her father. Eve, then twelve, volunteered to take
on the task, and at dinner she laid out the case to her father as if she were a lawyer before the
Supreme Court. Jobs cut her off—“No, I don’t think I want to”—but it was clear that he was more
amused than annoyed. Later that evening Eve sat down with her mother and deconstructed the
various ways that she could have made her case better.
Jobs came to appreciate her spirit—and see a lot of himself in her. “She’s a pistol and has the
strongest will of any kid I’ve ever met,” he said. “It’s like payback.” He had a deep understanding
of her personality, perhaps because it bore some resemblance to his. “Eve is more sensitive than a
lot of people think,” he explained. “She’s so smart that she can roll over people a bit, so that
means
she can alienate people, and she finds herself alone. She’s in the process of learning how to
be who she is, but tempers it around the edges so that she can have the friends that she needs.”
Jobs’s relationship with his wife was sometimes complicated but always loyal. Savvy and
compassionate, Laurene Powell was a stabilizing influence and an example of his ability to
compensate for some of his selfish impulses by surrounding himself with strong-willed and
sensible people. She weighed in quietly on business issues, firmly on family concerns, and fiercely
on medical matters. Early in their marriage, she cofounded and launched College Track, a national
after-school program that helps disadvantaged kids graduate from high school and get into college.
Since then she had become a leading force in the education reform movement. Jobs professed an
admiration for his wife’s work: “What she’s done with College Track really impresses me.” But
he tended to be generally dismissive of philanthropic endeavors and never visited her after-school
centers.
In February 2010 Jobs celebrated his fifty-fifth birthday with just his family. The kitchen was
decorated
with streamers and balloons, and his kids gave him a red-velvet toy crown, which he
wore. Now that he had recovered from a grueling year of health problems, Powell hoped that he
would become more attentive to his family. But for the most part he resumed his focus on his
work. “I think it was hard on the family, especially the girls,” she told me. “After two years of him
being ill, he finally gets a little better, and they expected he would focus a bit on them, but he
didn’t.” She wanted to make sure, she said, that both sides of his personality were reflected in this
book and put into context. “Like many great men
whose gifts are extraordinary, he’s not
extraordinary in every realm,” she said. “He doesn’t have social graces, such as putting himself in
other people’s shoes, but he cares deeply about empowering humankind, the advancement of
humankind, and putting the right tools in their hands.”
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