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6. Choose one issue from the following list of other potential pitfalls of family 
life. Discuss it in groups of three or four. Be ready to report your discussion to 
other groups
1) Distributing of house chores among the members of the family. 
2) Pros and cons of fostering a child. 3) Quarrels between spouses: 
whether they should have the matter out at once or they should wait till 
they both cool down. 4) The problems of having a granny in the family: 
encouraging old people to stay in old people’s houses versus catering for 
their needs at home. 5) Home life feels the stress of social life.
7. Read the following article based on the interview with Professor Arthur 
Aron, a fellow of the American Psychological Society and an Associate Editor 
for 
“The Journal of Personality” 
and “
Social Psychology”. 
Seven sentence parts 
have been removed from the article. Choose the most suitable ones from the list 
A-G for each gap (1-7) in the article and do the task following the text
A 
An interesting exception to this occurs
B 
when people fall in love 
C 
our appearance matters great deal
D 
One of the ways we accomplish this
E 
this disorder can also make you depressed
F 
This effect is well documented
G 
But how does this theory of self-expansion
Why do We Fall in Love?
Falling in love is a magical experience that happens between two 
people. So why do people fall in love? Professor Arthur Aron from 
State University of New York at Stonybrook has been exploring the 
dynamics of what happens when two people are falling in love.

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He claims that our primary motivation as human beings is to 
expand the self and to increase our abilities and our effectiveness.