Tips for staying in touch with extended family
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Ideally, try to visit frequently. If family-members happen to live nearby, make it a priority
to see them. Make it a habit and an expectation to visit for monthly dinners or other outings so
that kids know seeing their family members is a priority. Figure out a way to make it fun for
everyone. Try a new restaurant together, or go explore a park. Make family time enjoyable so the
experiences are positive for everyone.
Vacation together. Vacationing together as an extended family is easier than ever. AirBNB,
VRBO, and other websites allow users to rent rooms or even entire houses for vacations and
have opened up a world of vacationing that wasn’t available before. We can plan memorable
vacations with extended family and even split the cost of doing so. For everyone involved, the
vacation will surely be an unforgettable experience. When you really think about childhood
memories, you likely are able to recall several that involve places you vacationed. Doing this
with extended family is a fantastic way to connect!
Use technology to stay connected. When face-to-face gatherings are not possible, email,
social media, and VOIP–in various flavors–provide opportunities to share joys, triumphs,
disappointments, sorrows, and even plain, ordinary day-to-day living. With modern technology,
communication with family members is easily accessible. No more waiting for weeks for a letter
to make its way across the Atlantic or over land from one coast to the other. In this hyper-
connected age, children have a hard time imagining what it would be like to be limited to a
phone that is attached to a wall, let alone one that can be listened in on by every aunt and cousin
and neighbor on the local party line. Taking advantage of technology can strengthen the
connection and bond between extended family members. Even with obstacles or disadvantages
to using technology, it is important to make being connected to our extended family a priority,
and technology is a great tool to utilize.
Take lots of photos. Pictures get processed by our brains about 1000 times faster than text.
Photos evoke emotions, inspiring thoughts and memories about the event captured. Beyond
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sharing photos with extended family members, a thoughtful way to stay connected would be to
create an online photo page that everyone can access and share their photos. This can be a
fantastic way to stay connected and share memories with each other.
Perhaps in today’s society, we are so inundated with our own lives to realize how disconnected
we have become from our extended family members. In spite of the difficulties, we should strive
to stay connected with our extended family and make their relationships more of a priority. Only
good things can come of it!