All praise is due only to Allaah. We laud Him and beseech His

Amongst the Halaal things also, there is something Allaah 
Ta`ala detests --- Divorce
We will now highlight some points regarding the topic of 
Talaaq
(divorce). As much as the Shariah detests this, it is a 
fact of life and there are ways of doing it also. 

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journey, where conception will be harmful to both, mother and 
child, or perhaps there is dissension between the couple and an 
imminent separation is possible, etc. Then in all such cases, the 
impermissible act of ‘contraception’ becomes acceptable. In 
this regard, the Shariah has consented to 
azal
. Other forms of 
contraception should be avoided. 
On the other hand it is Haraam to practice contraception for 
fear of having an extra mouth to feed. Allaah Ta`ala states 
clearly in the Qur`aan Majeed that it is a major son to kill your 
children out of fear of poverty [Surah Israa] 
In conclusion of this section we humbly request that you 
exercise the proper option and do not misuse a Shar`i 
permissibility to suit your own whims. The best option in this 
and all other cases is to consult with a pious Aalim or Mufti 
and find out what the Shar`i ruling would be in your case. 
Arguments and strife between the mother and father
One main causative factor in keeping children ignorant and 
insecure is the constant fighting and arguing of the parents. 
When the child opens his eyes in the morning and sees his 
parents fighting and arguing, then the home feels dark and 
dreary for him. He wishes and desires to leave there and spend 
the rest of his day and time with his friends, away from that 
home. Naturally a child who spends most of his time with 
friends, turns out to be a bad specimen of a human. Such an 
environment only teaches him the wrong values and habits. 
It is for this reason that the Shariah has stipulated some 
guideline insofar as choosing a partner is concerned. Having 
the right partner in life means spending a peaceful and 
comfortable time together. Please do refer to the beginning