Writing and email to your pen-friend

Writing and email to your pen-friend
Photo credit: Igor Stevanovic
You could be the most conversational person in the world, but given a blank piece of paper and a pen with the exciting yet daunting task of writing to a new pen pal, anyone could be at a loss for words. So, how do you go about writing that all-important first letter? I have gathered together some of my best tips below, to make the task a lot easier. Of course, if you’re really anxious about it, you could always ask your pen pal to write the first letter, but I am hoping that after you have read this article, you’ll be excited to grab your pen and paper and get writing!Cover the essential information
Depending on how much contact you have had online or in person beforehand, make sure your new friend knows your name, your age, your gender, and where you live in the world. Then tell them about a couple of your hobbies and interests, or perhaps about your family – whatever you fancy sharing at the time. You could even tell them about what you’ve been up to that week, if it’s quite interesting and varied.
TELL YOUR PEN PAL WHERE YOU FOUND THEIR DETAILS
This one might not apply if you found your new penpal on a website which uses internal messaging, but if you found their profile and address somewhere else, let them know where.
KEEP IT PERSONALISED
Don’t be tempted to send this pen pal the same first letter you’ve sent to everyone else you’ve ever written to. This is very obvious, as it includes no questions specific to their likes and dislikes, and the chances of getting a reply would be very slim. It would be a bad first impression to give someone, and also it would be no fun whatsoever to write, so don’t do it!
DON’T OVERDO IT
It could be tempting to spill out your whole life story in your first letter – from your favourite instrument, to the unusual way you hold your knife and fork. Stop! Keep the first letter short, so it’s not overwhelming to receive, and give it time to get to know each other. Let your friendship blossom naturally; throwing a load of facts at someone in one go isn’t going to help.