Why Men Love Bitches

If you start out dependent, it turns him off.
But if it is something he can’t have, it becomes
more of a challenge for him to get it.
Again, it isn’t about learning how to play a game. It’s about
understanding human nature and behaving accordingly A man will
always want what he can’t have. When a man meets a woman and
she seems nonchalant, it becomes a challenge for him to win her
affections.
Or, if he tries to get a woman to react in an insecure way but she
holds herself with a level of dignity and pride, suddenly the dynamic
changes. The same guy who was gunshy of relationships becomes a
believer. Now he begins to fantasize about getting the so-called
bitch to cook him a meal, fold his socks, or chase him around. But if
you 
start out
dependent on him, he simply doesn’t value it the
same.
Another mistake that a woman can make is to put herself down.

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When you’re on a date, you should never talk about the plastic
surgery you want to have or the weight you want to lose. Don’t talk
him out of a compliment. This is the time to be sure of who you are.
So, what’s the right attitude? “This is me, in all of my splendor . .
. and it doesn’t get any better than this.” Don’t spend a fortune on a
therapist. Just say it to yourself until you believe it. Eventually you
will
believe it, and so will he.
Humility? Don’t worry. It’s a treatable affliction, a mental glitch.
If you catch yourself being modest or humble or any of that
nonsense, correct the problem immediately. Go directly back to
believing you are “a catch.” Period. End of story. Case closed. If
someone else doesn’t like your confidence, that’s their problem.
Why? You always come before they do, that’s why.
Case in point: Ever hear a man say that all the guys wanted his
exgirlfriend? He’ll build her up so much that when you finally see a
picture, you are dumbfounded. What you really want to say is,
“Honey, she looks like she had the starring role in 
Lassie Comes
Home.”
Don’t bother because he’ll rush to her defense: “She
looked better in real life.” No sale . . . try again. “She looked better
back then? (Pause.) It was a really bad picture, no, really.” (Still, no
sale.)
What women need to understand is that when a man considers a
woman to be a prize, looks have very little to do with it. In the
above example, it was a simple mind trick that goes like this: She
acted like a prize, and then a funny thing happened. He completely
forgot who he was looking at.

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ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #6