It is more important to have a good family than to have friends. Family can always compensate for absence of friendship.
To what extent do you agree or disagree?
Hi. To look at this question from my point of view, I want to tell you a little story about myself. I’m 17 and I was born in Andijan. My family wasn’t big and I am the first child. My parents were young and they didn’t have any experience about parenting, so they wanted to make a perfect child out of me. I was a baby and they tried their best to create a good life for me and 2 years later my little sister was born, but that didn't change the fact that I had to be perfect. At that time they weren’t religious people, but if they were, I would have become a monk I think. When I was 3 years old I started to go to kindergarten. It was amazing but my group was for 6 years old children and naturally after a year of study I finished kindergarten. I was a little weird, laughed a lot and cried a lot. I’ve never played outside with my neighbors and usually did houseworks, played lego and learnt russian language with my mom. And at the age of 6 I went to school. Before school I didn’t have any friends and I always played with my sister. I went to school with my cousin who is a year older than me and he was my complete opposite. Since I was sitting at home and I had orthopedic problems, I was not physically very strong, but he was strong and always fought with someone. He grew up on the street and had a lot of friends. Our parents say they wanted him to protect me and that's why we study together, but it wasn’t a good idea. He made friends with everyone and started fighting with me. Because of my parents I needed to be the best student and I was but I had no friends in primary school. In high school I started to make friends with losers and because of the knowledge and talent, many began to respect me but it wasn’t friendship. Finally at the end of school I didn’t have any friends except of my cousin. But, in the 9th grade I was transferred to another school and there I made some friends. It was amazing and I had no problems. But after a year I came to Tashkent and they forgot me except one. Here in the beginning I didn't try to make friends, but when I started working in the studio, I made friends with colleagues. Then I left work and worked at home remotely and finally came here and made friends with the group. As a result, I have friends from the past who can be counted on the fingers and this group. this is my story and what conclusions do I have?
I often don't have enough friends and I feel lonely, and in my experience, family can't be a friend. This is my psychological trauma, and sometimes it's hard for me to love my family, and it's hard for me to make friends with someone. And that's why I love music, I listen to music when I'm sad, lonely or having fun. Don't be an introvert and make a lot of friends.
About friendship.
Muhammad Yusuf.
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